Dangerous way of thinking

[everywomanshero]

I'm seeing a dangerous style of thinking on this forum. Basically, there is an element of person who are so far removed from success with women that they tend to think anyone who reports success must be lying or exagerating.

This is a very handy model of thinking for those who do not wish to face the simple fact that they could be doing something about their failures with women. The fact is there are guys on thisand other forums that ARE having success with women. You can either join them or continue saying nothing would work and keep getting the same results.

I'll give you just one example: Ross Jefferies has taken a bad beating. I have no idea if most of my his material would work or not, but I have "borrowed" material of his dating back to 1994 and made it work. Now, had I just listened to the conventional advice and ignored everything he had to say, I would've missed out on some good stuff.

If you listen to some of these guys, nothing would work except sitting around waiting for a busload of Playmates to accidently mistake your shabby aparment for Heffners masion.

The truth of the matter is it takes hours per day of reading, testing, analysing results, getting feedback from successful men, and retesting to get this stuff right. It's more like a permanent part of your life than a quick fix.

 

[Inc. ©]

Bottom line is most of the guys here are KBJs. Theory doesn't work in real life...there are so many variables.

 

[everywomanshero]

The Field

I agree. It's pointless to read about techniques and never experiment with them. If you don't rehearse them, you won't be able to remember much less execute them when you've tried to "cram" the night before going out.

I now have an increasing circle of wingmen in my local area. I had zero when I first started this thing. In addition, I've learned how to go out solo. There is never an excuse. At least four women a day at the absolute minimum should be approached. That isn't hard to do at all. You have to go to work, shop, get gas, and eat don't you?

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by everywomanshero
...there is an element of person who are so far removed from success with women that they tend to think anyone who reports success must be lying or exagerating.

I've noticed this in life as well (and on this forum).

The people who lie...
-accuse everyone else of lying.

The people who cheat...
-accuse their partner of cheating.

The people who have no success with women...
-accuse everyone else of having no succes with women.


Psychology 101.

Projection: is when someone is threatened by or afraid of their own impulses so they attribute these impulses to someone else.

source:
http://www.alleydog.com/glossary/definition.cfm?term=Projection

 

[tristan22]

I'm just guessing, but probably 90% of the people here are KBJ! And i've met plenty of them...lol

 

[Inc. ©]

Originally posted by tristan22
I'm just guessing, but probably 90% of the people here are KBJ! And i've met plenty of them...lol

And you won't tell us who...

Honestly though I don't care if a guy isn't good, but as long as he's out in the field trying and improving.

 

[tristan22]

I don't care either, i was shocked at the lack of game going on!

 

[Inc. ©]

Originally posted by tristan22
I don't care either, i was shocked at the lack of game going on!

Tell us more!