"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dang, This Chick is a tad Older than me.

micecubes

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I was chillin at a bookstore when I came across a blonde woman (Face: 7; Body: 10) drinking coffee at the cafe. I overheard her speak with an accent so I knew I had something to talk about. I asked her for the time, Then i proceeded to ask where she acquired that interesting accent. This woman was from Russia. She just finished getting her Masters in Business here in the States. I got her number. Told her I'd give her a call sometime.

I'm a 17 year old high school grad going to my first year of college next fall. I just told her I was a University student. not really lying. I think anyone with a Masters in Business is at least 24-26 years old.

Anything I should do? I feel kinda in over my head but i also feel like a stud for getting the # on a cold approach. My first by the way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey, congratulations on getting that phone number. Stop over-analyzing what could happen and just go with the flow.

Whatever comes out of it would be mutual. So enjoy the moment.
 

Alen-Delon

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i ve had few encounters with russian women before.... if shes 24 or 25 less likely your gonna have chance with her unless you can keep up with her intelect.... and tell her at least yor 21 22 or no chance hola back
 

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me 18
gf 25

together for almost 18 months

keep up the good work and stop worrying
 
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