"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I went to my first party in a while a few days back. I then realized I'm not that good at dancing. I'm okay at grinding but after that I can't really dance we were having dance off and people breaking dancing were killing me. I was wonder where I can learn to dance better. I want get better at grinding,slow dancing and like breakdaning. What should I do thx for the help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i have the same problem....ive been meaning to find a place for dance lessons....

chicks, espcially the party type really dig good dancers, so better hurry up finding a place to learn.
 

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Yea I really want to learn how to dance better. cause at first I was really dancing like i was nerous than after a while i started feeling the music and the vibe more and got into dancing better but I want to get better at dancing
 

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Thx for the link. I don't want to breakdance didn't realize what break dancing was. I really want to pop,lock and glide and anything else thats top hot along those lines
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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www.bustamove.com you guys should learn how to dance salsa, cause is one of the best to get chicks
 

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DDR is not dancing! The only three things its good for are fun, cardio excercise, and learning to hear the beat. None of the "moves" you learn in that game can come in handy on the dance floor =D

Anyways, http://www.bboy.org has a forums section about popping/locking. Another good site is http://www.mrwiggleshiphop.net , there are videos and things but I haven't really looked into it that much. The best place to learn, however, is at either hip-hop dance clubs (clubs as in groups of people, not buildings) where veteran dancers can teach you the basics, or regular old dance studios, where you can learn most of the same moves at a higher price. Both popping and locking are awesome to watch, so best of luck to you in learning a style.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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http://www.bboy.org ahhhh... I used to go there

You can go to a dance-studio... they teach hip-hop.

I've never heard of someone learning to pop-lock. I thought anyone could do it. :confused:

Anyway. If you want to learn, hip-hop is not the best. I recommend tango and the swing.

There a lot more fun and you get better less "sl u ty women"

Don't get me wrong. I love to dance to hip-hop, and I had some tight moves(prior to jumping out a three-story window and compressing two vertbra :( )

If you want to learn, go to a dance studio for some lessons, As long as your not doing ballet your not gonna look gay, there's tons of HOT women who go, Practically NO competition, women like it cause it shows you got guts, women think male dancers are the sexiest, as long as you can resist wearing a pink tutu
 

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dementia is right, if u really want to try popping download soulseek and the videos from the people there will help u with ur moves. they helped my popping a lot...also if u ask some of the users in the room POPPING, they will sometimes give u feedback if u have n-e questions or problems
 

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I would learn pop&lock and/or bboying if you want a good dance to impress people by showing off. HOWEVER being able to dance more sophisticated dances IE: Salsa, Swing, Waltz is a big plus with the ladies.

For bboying:
www.Bboyworld.com
www.Bboy.org
For pop and lock there is either bboy.org or reflexive.net, which is a liquidpop site but much of liquid has pop and lock elements.

Just do whatever appeals to you, and what you think will be the most fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you wanna learn how to pop/lock .... slide.... and a bunch of other **** i strongly recommend Mr.Wiggles !

www.mrwiggleshiphop.net

I bought 3 of his movies and i practiced them like 30 min. a day and holy **** ! it helps so much you wouldn't even believe it.
 

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I want to learn to dance too.

I always wanted to learn salsa, swing, and a whole bunch of others although I don't care for club dancing.

EDIT: This is the 48th thousandth post:) this is a moment that i will remember for the next 5 minutes and then forget about:D
 
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