"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dancing?

AlexTheGreat

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This is a question concerning one's ability to dance. I've noticed that some people tell me I dance really good, and some girls really appreciate that, with them COMING to me to dance. But then, there's another bunch that says I suck. LOL So which one is it? Right now, I have two contradicting stories. And how do you get better at dancing in general? I don't think dancing classes are any good for just casual club outtings...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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j8snx1

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Who cares if some say you suck? Let them talk trash, listen to the ones that support you, and just dance on man.

For club dancings, it's really simple; it's more work for the girl than the guy anyway, but it takes some getting used to in the beginning (i give it like 5-10 minutes before you get the hang of the 'freak dancing'). As for other dancing like Breakdancing, salsa, hiphop, etc. those will take more time and practice than club dancing. Im not clear on what kind of dancing you're talking about, but dance on bro.
 

AlexTheGreat

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I'm the type of guy who dances all night long, with or without a girl. My style changes completely from when I'm with a girl to when I'm alone ; as in, I dance very much with my upperbody when alone, but its lowerbody when the girl comes along. Everyone agrees that I rock at dancing with girls, but then the part where there's confusion is solitary : thats where I want to learn how to dance better. Any input? ;)
 

j8snx1

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ahaha join the club man; homecoming was off the wall for me: 3 hours of dancing with only water breaks inbetween.

my only input is...

the fact that you enjoy dancing whether you're alone or with a girl is awesome man. some guys refuse to dance without a girl, and most cant even muster the courage to get on the dance floor.
 
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