"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dancing?

AlexTheGreat

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This is a question concerning one's ability to dance. I've noticed that some people tell me I dance really good, and some girls really appreciate that, with them COMING to me to dance. But then, there's another bunch that says I suck. LOL So which one is it? Right now, I have two contradicting stories. And how do you get better at dancing in general? I don't think dancing classes are any good for just casual club outtings...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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j8snx1

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Who cares if some say you suck? Let them talk trash, listen to the ones that support you, and just dance on man.

For club dancings, it's really simple; it's more work for the girl than the guy anyway, but it takes some getting used to in the beginning (i give it like 5-10 minutes before you get the hang of the 'freak dancing'). As for other dancing like Breakdancing, salsa, hiphop, etc. those will take more time and practice than club dancing. Im not clear on what kind of dancing you're talking about, but dance on bro.
 

AlexTheGreat

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I'm the type of guy who dances all night long, with or without a girl. My style changes completely from when I'm with a girl to when I'm alone ; as in, I dance very much with my upperbody when alone, but its lowerbody when the girl comes along. Everyone agrees that I rock at dancing with girls, but then the part where there's confusion is solitary : thats where I want to learn how to dance better. Any input? ;)
 

j8snx1

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ahaha join the club man; homecoming was off the wall for me: 3 hours of dancing with only water breaks inbetween.

my only input is...

the fact that you enjoy dancing whether you're alone or with a girl is awesome man. some guys refuse to dance without a girl, and most cant even muster the courage to get on the dance floor.
 
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