"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dancing with boner???

gijoe

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i was at this dance slow dancing w/ some chick i just met and was talking to her and suddenly i got the biggest boner. are you suppose to get a boner while slowdancing? how do you react if she reacts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spax

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omg you probably have never touched a girl in your life before.
 

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I don't see this as a problem unless you are on Dancing with the Stars HD.
 

spax

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But seriously.....slow dancing? WTF? Masturbate some more if you get horny off that.
 

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normally i dont, i have touched a girl before, and yes i have danced dozens of times.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sure, its normal,
embrace it, don't worry , girls like it when you get boners

just hope its dark there so everybody *else* don't see it,
but the girl you are dancing with

whisper in her ear "lol , stop turning me on so much!"

always speak of what she is thinking or what you are thinking, it'll make things more comfortable.
 

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spax said:
But seriously.....slow dancing? WTF? Masturbate some more if you get horny off that.
I get horny when I watch people kiss... :eek:
 

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i was at this dance slow dancing w/ some chick i just met and was talking to her and suddenly i got the biggest boner. are you suppose to get a boner while slowdancing? how do you react if she reacts?
First couple of times I've been in that situation, it was AWKWARD as ****.

Once you been around the block a few times, its cool though. As long as you're comfortable with it, SHE is comfortable with it. That's what grinding is for bro
 

SinJester

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spax said:
omg you probably have never touched a girl in your life before.
omg you are probably gay.

Anyway it will probably turn her on, I used to think along the same lines but now I just chill with it, I haven't had a girl slap me yet :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well i was so embarrassed i was like getting hell into dancing with this chick and them bam.. i was just so devastated at the time i just walked off and tried to ignore the situation and then come back as if nothing happened. were really good mates now however
 

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It's only bad if she's fat. Or a teacher. Especially a male one. You never know, right? This is the 21st century after all.
 
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