"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dancing Tutorials?

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Hey guys, I need some help.

To put it bluntly, I suck at dancing. To the point where even complete strangers will sometimes start laughing. Not good, I know.

I mean I do have game, but the crappy dancing lets me down. So I need some kind of help here. Now I know there was a thread like this a little while back but... I didn't get much help from it.

All I am asking is... are there any classes anywhere, or any DVDs etc that can help you to dance properly (to modern music like hip-hop/R&B/trance etc?)

Please dont say.. 'Well why dont you try ballroom dancing! It's great!' etc... I've done that already. Yeah it was OK but when are you ever gonna need to do that in real life? In a nightclub? Please.

I am 'affectionately' known as the 'wax on/wax off man' to my friends because apparently my moves consists of shaking my ass (badly) and rotating my hands in a car washing-style movement. Not great.

So anyone know of any tutorials/videos etc for MODERN dancing? I've searched the 'net but so far, not so good. Please help. Thx
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Check the yellow pages "Dance Lessons" "Freestyle dance" OFC there is classes.
 
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Sorry. Web Savvy. OFC = Ofcorse
 
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Oh OK lol. But just another question - do you mean the Yellow Pages (as in the English phone book), or the one online? Or does it not matter? Thx.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ah sweet.. thanks for that man. Actually I'm down in Kent but there only seems to be a pitiful amount of classes there... :( there are 1 or 2 tho (not too far away) so I can imagine I'll be checking those out real soon.

So.. two thumbs up. Much appreciated m8
 
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bboy.org...learn toprock and watch the chicks aproach you instead of the opposite(seriously)...totally saved my trip to england ...
 
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Cool... I'm gonna download some of that material tonite when I get in from work. Thanks man, appreciated once again

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honestly, the best way to learn is to go to the clubs and watch people who you think are good, and practice based on that.

thats how i started, and i constantly get compliments from females. Not to mention getting approached.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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