"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dancing Tutorials?

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Hey guys, I need some help.

To put it bluntly, I suck at dancing. To the point where even complete strangers will sometimes start laughing. Not good, I know.

I mean I do have game, but the crappy dancing lets me down. So I need some kind of help here. Now I know there was a thread like this a little while back but... I didn't get much help from it.

All I am asking is... are there any classes anywhere, or any DVDs etc that can help you to dance properly (to modern music like hip-hop/R&B/trance etc?)

Please dont say.. 'Well why dont you try ballroom dancing! It's great!' etc... I've done that already. Yeah it was OK but when are you ever gonna need to do that in real life? In a nightclub? Please.

I am 'affectionately' known as the 'wax on/wax off man' to my friends because apparently my moves consists of shaking my ass (badly) and rotating my hands in a car washing-style movement. Not great.

So anyone know of any tutorials/videos etc for MODERN dancing? I've searched the 'net but so far, not so good. Please help. Thx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Check the yellow pages "Dance Lessons" "Freestyle dance" OFC there is classes.
 
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Sorry. Web Savvy. OFC = Ofcorse
 
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Oh OK lol. But just another question - do you mean the Yellow Pages (as in the English phone book), or the one online? Or does it not matter? Thx.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ah sweet.. thanks for that man. Actually I'm down in Kent but there only seems to be a pitiful amount of classes there... :( there are 1 or 2 tho (not too far away) so I can imagine I'll be checking those out real soon.

So.. two thumbs up. Much appreciated m8
 
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bboy.org...learn toprock and watch the chicks aproach you instead of the opposite(seriously)...totally saved my trip to england ...
 
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Cool... I'm gonna download some of that material tonite when I get in from work. Thanks man, appreciated once again

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honestly, the best way to learn is to go to the clubs and watch people who you think are good, and practice based on that.

thats how i started, and i constantly get compliments from females. Not to mention getting approached.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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