"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dancing Tutorials?

James Bondage

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Hey guys, I need some help.

To put it bluntly, I suck at dancing. To the point where even complete strangers will sometimes start laughing. Not good, I know.

I mean I do have game, but the crappy dancing lets me down. So I need some kind of help here. Now I know there was a thread like this a little while back but... I didn't get much help from it.

All I am asking is... are there any classes anywhere, or any DVDs etc that can help you to dance properly (to modern music like hip-hop/R&B/trance etc?)

Please dont say.. 'Well why dont you try ballroom dancing! It's great!' etc... I've done that already. Yeah it was OK but when are you ever gonna need to do that in real life? In a nightclub? Please.

I am 'affectionately' known as the 'wax on/wax off man' to my friends because apparently my moves consists of shaking my ass (badly) and rotating my hands in a car washing-style movement. Not great.

So anyone know of any tutorials/videos etc for MODERN dancing? I've searched the 'net but so far, not so good. Please help. Thx
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Check the yellow pages "Dance Lessons" "Freestyle dance" OFC there is classes.
 

Tomatoes

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Sorry. Web Savvy. OFC = Ofcorse
 

James Bondage

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Oh OK lol. But just another question - do you mean the Yellow Pages (as in the English phone book), or the one online? Or does it not matter? Thx.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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James Bondage

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Ah sweet.. thanks for that man. Actually I'm down in Kent but there only seems to be a pitiful amount of classes there... :( there are 1 or 2 tho (not too far away) so I can imagine I'll be checking those out real soon.

So.. two thumbs up. Much appreciated m8
 

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bboy.org...learn toprock and watch the chicks aproach you instead of the opposite(seriously)...totally saved my trip to england ...
 

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Cool... I'm gonna download some of that material tonite when I get in from work. Thanks man, appreciated once again

;)
 

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honestly, the best way to learn is to go to the clubs and watch people who you think are good, and practice based on that.

thats how i started, and i constantly get compliments from females. Not to mention getting approached.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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