"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dancing Thread

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt

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I only saw the preview for the movie Hitch, but I remember Will Smith telling the fat white guy to keep his elbows within six inches from his waist at all times. Is this a good tip for a beginner?
 

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im completely different than all of you. honestly, i dunno why people reccomend usher or anything, do you guys actually dance like nsync when you're on the floor?with all thoose steps? how do you even have the room?

-I usually go to clubs playing electronic music, trance is such a sexy genre of music to dance with a chick to.

-I've made so many posts about dancing i should just copy and paste them...but heres what I do. As soon as i get in the club i put on a big smile stand real tall and start doing a worm like move with my hips. This is near impossible to do unless you have actually danced for a while, its like as you dance you unlock more control in your body.

-If im feeling the song I may just dance there with myself for a lil, eventually i'll either approach a chick thats by the bar. Now for a trance/dance/whatever you wanna call it club...its soooooo damn easy. The girls are usually taping their feet dying to get out there, especially if its a tiesto song or something. Start facing the girl, i usually grab her 2 hands and start doing some swing like kinda moves, spining her and stuff. Do everything with a smile, she'll laugh and loveit. Another thing i do is grab her hands and from a distance make a wave like motion to the tempo. Then grab her right arm and spin it over her head so now her ass is in your crotch, her hands are crossed across her belly. LEt go of her hands and just grind for a while.
-I have 10's of theese but am not saying anymore because it all consits of you just going to a club and watching other guys dance, or doing it urself. I noticed, at the hiphop clubs, the black guys usually suck! the cool ones just wyle out. Im not 1% italian, but i noticed the shiny italian lookin fvckers usually know their **** real good, I usually learned from watching them in a hiphop club.
 

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Yea if you are interested in popping/locking or any other funkstyle dances check out mrwigglesonline.com.

For liquid styles check out out reflective.com

There are lots and lots of dance sites...

Check out boogiezone.com also....


Me I am trying to learn to pop right now. It is really a hard thing for me to learn but mabye one day I will get it..
 

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I have problems breakdancing in clubs due to broken glass all over the dancefloor - any sugegstions on how to overcome this?

I mean I can still uprock and body pop - but not bust any of my power moves. :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Q-Unit, the first thing you should be considering is why there is broken glass on the floor. Then if you want, bring some gloves with you to protect your hands.
 

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Originally posted by nero
Yea if you are interested in popping/locking or any other funkstyle dances check out mrwigglesonline.com.

For liquid styles check out out reflective.com

There are lots and lots of dance sites...

Check out boogiezone.com also....


Me I am trying to learn to pop right now. It is really a hard thing for me to learn but mabye one day I will get it..
DUDE, I WAS JUST GOING TO POST A LINK TO HIS SITE!!!!



Learn to float (moonwalking/silding). It's one of the easiest things to learn to do, but also one of the most impressive things to other pe ople. If you can float, there isn't a song you can't dance to

Once you learn how to Float, AND pop (I don't like Locking) then you are in
 

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also learn certian types of dances... like the harlem shake is good for when ever a song comes on that is real "crunk". I have known how to crip walk since I was 11, but It's nice to do it every once in a while when something with the right beat comes on, like "how we do" by the Game... just make sure you are at the right place or you can really offend someone, but down here it's not a big deal.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Q-Pid

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
Q-Unit, the first thing you should be considering is why there is broken glass on the floor. Then if you want, bring some gloves with you to protect your hands.
****ty English clubs full of drunken people who drop glasses after finishign their drink.

We have an alcohol problem in the UK...
 
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