"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dancing Thread
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
gimmeyofonenumba
Master Don Juan
-I usually go to clubs playing electronic music, trance is such a sexy genre of music to dance with a chick to.
-I've made so many posts about dancing i should just copy and paste them...but heres what I do. As soon as i get in the club i put on a big smile stand real tall and start doing a worm like move with my hips. This is near impossible to do unless you have actually danced for a while, its like as you dance you unlock more control in your body.
-If im feeling the song I may just dance there with myself for a lil, eventually i'll either approach a chick thats by the bar. Now for a trance/dance/whatever you wanna call it club...its soooooo damn easy. The girls are usually taping their feet dying to get out there, especially if its a tiesto song or something. Start facing the girl, i usually grab her 2 hands and start doing some swing like kinda moves, spining her and stuff. Do everything with a smile, she'll laugh and loveit. Another thing i do is grab her hands and from a distance make a wave like motion to the tempo. Then grab her right arm and spin it over her head so now her ass is in your crotch, her hands are crossed across her belly. LEt go of her hands and just grind for a while.
-I have 10's of theese but am not saying anymore because it all consits of you just going to a club and watching other guys dance, or doing it urself. I noticed, at the hiphop clubs, the black guys usually suck! the cool ones just wyle out. Im not 1% italian, but i noticed the shiny italian lookin fvckers usually know their **** real good, I usually learned from watching them in a hiphop club.
For liquid styles check out out reflective.com
There are lots and lots of dance sites...
Check out boogiezone.com also....
Me I am trying to learn to pop right now. It is really a hard thing for me to learn but mabye one day I will get it..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
Master Don Juan
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
DUDE, I WAS JUST GOING TO POST A LINK TO HIS SITE!!!!
Learn to float (moonwalking/silding). It's one of the easiest things to learn to do, but also one of the most impressive things to other pe ople. If you can float, there isn't a song you can't dance to
Once you learn how to Float, AND pop (I don't like Locking) then you are in
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.