"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dancing/makeout problem

sbgm

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Hello! I have recently become DJ ( that is disc-jockey). I'm playing with a friend of mine and last night a girl teased me from the floor. As my friend were playing at the time, I went down to the floor to dance with her. She seemed a little shy but we danced for a time. Then I felt her getting tired of dancing. I was kiss-close there! But what should I do when we've danced sexy for a while? Grab her hand and get her out of the party and start make out? I have no idea, I've only did that one time and that was when I was really drunk. Wtf do I do when I feel the attraction and we are dancing? Just propose "Let's go and have some fresh air" or take her to a lonely place were we can makeout/have sex ?

Please help
 

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sbgm

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Yeah! Thanks... She had her friend there dancing too.
 

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sbgm said:
Hello! I have recently become DJ ( that is disc-jockey). I'm playing with a friend of mine and last night a girl teased me from the floor. As my friend were playing at the time, I went down to the floor to dance with her. She seemed a little shy but we danced for a time. Then I felt her getting tired of dancing. I was kiss-close there! But what should I do when we've danced sexy for a while? Grab her hand and get her out of the party and start make out? I have no idea, I've only did that one time and that was when I was really drunk. Wtf do I do when I feel the attraction and we are dancing? Just propose "Let's go and have some fresh air" or take her to a lonely place were we can makeout/have sex ?

Please help
Kiss her how the hell you want.

Show her you can take action and your different from every other guy.
 

Damian

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Take her up to the DJ stage to isolate first, it's a nice DHV to be the music-man. Talk to her there and get some rapport. Get her comfortable with a lot of kino and plenty of eye contect. For the kiss, just move in when there's extended eye contact. You can isolate further to someplace quiet or go for the number close and finish it off with a kiss.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SinJester

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Go somewhere quiet and move in. Its that simple. If she was dancing with you she digs you.
 
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