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Dancing/makeout problem

sbgm

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Hello! I have recently become DJ ( that is disc-jockey). I'm playing with a friend of mine and last night a girl teased me from the floor. As my friend were playing at the time, I went down to the floor to dance with her. She seemed a little shy but we danced for a time. Then I felt her getting tired of dancing. I was kiss-close there! But what should I do when we've danced sexy for a while? Grab her hand and get her out of the party and start make out? I have no idea, I've only did that one time and that was when I was really drunk. Wtf do I do when I feel the attraction and we are dancing? Just propose "Let's go and have some fresh air" or take her to a lonely place were we can makeout/have sex ?

Please help
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sbgm

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Yeah! Thanks... She had her friend there dancing too.
 

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sbgm said:
Hello! I have recently become DJ ( that is disc-jockey). I'm playing with a friend of mine and last night a girl teased me from the floor. As my friend were playing at the time, I went down to the floor to dance with her. She seemed a little shy but we danced for a time. Then I felt her getting tired of dancing. I was kiss-close there! But what should I do when we've danced sexy for a while? Grab her hand and get her out of the party and start make out? I have no idea, I've only did that one time and that was when I was really drunk. Wtf do I do when I feel the attraction and we are dancing? Just propose "Let's go and have some fresh air" or take her to a lonely place were we can makeout/have sex ?

Please help
Kiss her how the hell you want.

Show her you can take action and your different from every other guy.
 

Damian

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Take her up to the DJ stage to isolate first, it's a nice DHV to be the music-man. Talk to her there and get some rapport. Get her comfortable with a lot of kino and plenty of eye contect. For the kiss, just move in when there's extended eye contact. You can isolate further to someplace quiet or go for the number close and finish it off with a kiss.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SinJester

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Go somewhere quiet and move in. Its that simple. If she was dancing with you she digs you.
 
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