Hey guys! I've been reading around these forums for a few months now and I've been given a new perspective on this whole deal. I would like to thank you all for the help. My question that I'd like to ask is: How do you dance without looking like an idiot? Last dance we had at school, I went and turned out to look like a total idiot. No idea what i was doing. So just some tips maybe? Not realy sure how to move. Music played is usually RnB and some hip hop.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dancing Help Please!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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How did you look like an idiot?
I don't know how I dance personally, I just move to the rythm and don't really give a fvck what people think of my moves. I've been given the compliment of being a great dancer while I was on sick amounts of intoxicating substances. Just doing what you feel like doing makes you seem confident, following certain lameass dance moves makes you seem like a boring freak.
The only time I feel like I look like an idiot when dancing is when I'm doing the head-nod
If you really suck at it, buy a huge mirror, get some good dancing music and look at yourself dancing in the mirror. I haven't tried it, but I've read it's a good way to practice.
I don't know how I dance personally, I just move to the rythm and don't really give a fvck what people think of my moves. I've been given the compliment of being a great dancer while I was on sick amounts of intoxicating substances. Just doing what you feel like doing makes you seem confident, following certain lameass dance moves makes you seem like a boring freak.
The only time I feel like I look like an idiot when dancing is when I'm doing the head-nod
If you really suck at it, buy a huge mirror, get some good dancing music and look at yourself dancing in the mirror. I haven't tried it, but I've read it's a good way to practice.
well, by idiot i mean that nothing is going smoothly. you can tell that i am trying really hard to do something right and it just makes me look awkward. im just asking if they are certains body parts that you move in a certain way
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do a search for dancing/clubs/grinding/ etc
The guy who posted beneath you did this and he had success
The guy who posted beneath you did this and he had success
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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