"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dancefloor: "Show me what you got?"

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A couple weeks ago I was at the club and asked a girl if she wanted to dance (I know, AFC, but, in my experience asking a girl casually to dance isn't that bad). She told me, "show me what you got." So, immediately, I'm thinking this girl is out to play guys and I want no part of her, but I had no line so I meekly began showing my weak dance moves.

Does anybody have any C+F lines for this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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...so I meekly began showing my weak dance moves.
you don't need a line, you need to practice dancing until you are smooth and confident... now get busy.
 

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If it was with me, she would be embarassed for life, and beg me to teach her how to dance.
 

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"Nah, I'd better not just yet. I'm not sure if you could keep up."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A couple weeks ago I was at the club and asked a girl if she wanted to dance (I know, AFC,

If you don't ask em to dance then how are you ever going to get at em?

It's not AFC to ask them to dance. It's just being a man and stepping up.

It's a woman who must wait, and any man who sits and waits for a woman to ask him to dance is nuthin but a bytch.
 
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