"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hear hear!

Rick Astley is the man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OTB said:
Tekniq, let's try not to be as much of a pretenious douche as you are in real life! (no offense of course) :up:
At least when i make an attempt to flame i can spell it correctly; it is pretentious.
 

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nikko49 said:
hehe. very nice.

the party's gonna be on october 4. should i tell my neighbors that i am having one, so they can prepare for the noise? my 'hood' is upper-middle class and split between elderly people and families with kids.
You should definitely tell your neighbours about it, those are the crowds that tend to call the police on parties.
 

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yes, i'll tell my neigbors about it. i was thinking about going door to door but my mom said to just drop off notes. i think i'll take the notes, and on them i will put basically what i am doing and my phone # if they have questions

i think i'll spend a lot of next week downloading music though. any final suggestions?, i have everything else planned already, like the speakers, lights (my friends'), and drinks/snacks. first real party at my house.

this is exciting.

also, if everyone stops dancing, what do i do lol. this is where a lot of parties that i've gone to seem to fall apart.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lucky for you, I got the best house/techno/club music. I'll post some links soon, on my iPhone right now ;)
 

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Here you go:

Code:
http://www.torrentz.com/d8f45697456966b889013566561381bb99d39f35
http://www.torrentz.com/0c267b29f40c979509f4b24432e7d1f3faca0b9e
http://www.torrentz.com/69df56dee50f3d020384f0c095a823238aff3a54
http://www.torrentz.com/6009c32c1a50f416d53af756ad926f5dbc0a4c77
http://www.torrentz.com/1bdde4fefd5830b156506f3c4be31ae254b7a8c2
 

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I had the party all set up, with the help of 3 of my friends.
2 strobe lights.
1 disco ball.
6 blacklights.

However, only like 12 people showed up. I was kind of mad, but hey, now I know who my true friends are. That alone might be worth it. Also, I think we still had some good times. One of my friends saved my ass by having the idea of renting a movie. We raced to the store and back, laughing our asses off hitting 70mph. (mega illegal, but w/e). We all piled onto 2 couches and watched the Simpsons Movie. I am very grateful for him because of his idea, it made the party 10x more bearable. However, I will try this once more in the spring once it warms up again. Any tips for getting more people/making more people come?

Verdict: Not as successful as I thought it would be, but still good fun. Also, I don't want to get too discouraged, because it was my first party. However, I have massive leftover food. fvck.
 
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ahaha alex i remember this.
i couldn't go cause i was covered with hot asses from every direction at the MN dance.
did it turn out good?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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OTB said:
Fuking pigs! -----> As if they have nothing else better to do than stop a bunch of kids from having a good time! :box:

Yep, the evils of alcohol are without any doubt, the greatest threat facing Americas youth today *sigh* :eek:

As was actually relaxing at Brighton Beach several weeks ago and lo & behold what do I see?
Two teenage kids (about 15 or 16) get handcuffed for doing the malicious deed of drinking a bottle of beer outside -----> not to mention there were dirty street vendors basically harassing ever single person they could lay their eyes upon into buying it
(and who would expect 2 16 year old boys from turning that gracious offer down? :D )
But that's still not the best part! ------> Whithin a matter of about 40 minutes / an hour, there were about 3 - 4 police SUVs and even a small mobile command center encircling them! :eek: I kid you not!
This is probably the exact reason why all the murders and other dangerous criminals are running around the street while all the public enemies composed of minors drinking alcohol are firmliy under control..... Sad but true...:(
All I can say right now is:
EPIC FAIL
(At least that's my experience with the NYPD outside of Manhattan) :trouble:
Lmao, that reminds me of something that happened to me a few weeks ago.

My friend Dave got so drunk he fell down a flight of stairs and knocked himself out. Everyone thought he broke his neck, so like 9 different people at the party called 911. An ambulance got their quick but so did 3 cops who barged in asking people their age and if they were drinking.

This guy just fell down a staircase, everyone is scared as hell, his girlfriend thinks he's dead, and the cops are worried about if there's any underage drinking going on.

America has one of the highest legal drinking ages in the world, yet it doesn't stop any minors from drinking.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_drinking_age
 
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