Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dance magic and power of eyes

AlwaysExcel

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THANK YOU!!! This is gold! I love to dance to all types of music but the club grind is my weakest point because I didn't know how to escalate. You've really helped me!

I have a couple questions I'll post after I've read the entire thread in the other forum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hey, I've spotted a few people wondering how to get the 'rhythm' of the music so they can dance a bit better. Someone suggested practicing in front of the mirror.

Something I've found that works even better is to buy yourself a GOOD webcam, preferably with a microphone (mine is about £60-70, dunno what's good in dollars!).

You can then use it to film yourself (looking like a right idiot? :)) in your flat, and you don't have to keep looking in a mirror to watch how you're doing. Another bonus is the video will show what you look like from ANY angle, not just straight on like the mirror does.

-> Beethoven
 

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The rotation thing was a little confusing, had to read it a few times to get it, but this stuff is gold man, i'll definatly be trying this stuff out, thanks
 

Kourt

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alright so we got ur technique down pat, now when u go to clubs what do u wear? Jeans and button up shirt? Or whats the style to go with.
 

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Got any good websites with dancing tips?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by Kourt
alright so we got ur technique down pat, now when u go to clubs what do u wear? Jeans and button up shirt? Or whats the style to go with.
Me? Depends abit what kind of venue I'm going to. Since I'm also into the tranceunderground community I go to those kind of events too...

Normally it's:

Pants:
- Vintage jeans (I have like 5 different pairs of 100+$ vintage jeans). You know the kind, good form and fit, it has faded patterns/whiskers etc.

Shirt:
- Either a fly buttonup shirt (I NEVER EVER wear just a onecolored simple shirt, it either has stripes, a pattern or wrinkly or whatever). Never buttoned up fully, always 2-3 top buttons open. Sometimes I wear a singlet/sleeveless underneath then I often only have one or zero buttons done.

- T-shirts. I love good tshirts, I love them tight over the chest and arms too, not SUPERTIGHT but fitting. Again cool but not tacky shirts, simple but stylish.

I like both t-shirts and shirts to sit good over the chestarea and arms.


Jacket:
I very often wear a blazer too, a black one (black or blue ones with pinstripes is RAD too!). I normally take this of before or while dancing.


Shoes:
Red leather shoes!
http://www.bianco.com/collection/viewer.asp?section=men&page=1&style=3
Those are practically identical to mine :) I either wear those, or a black pair that is very simular or another pair that are more rustic coloured but in cloth instead of leather (more sportish).


Accessories:
Depends abit on venue/what i'm going to but often either a beanie or a visor, depends abit on my hairday and how I want it to look and what style I'm going with.

Sometimes a sweatband on my wrist (black one), fits very well with trancetype environments/clubs.

Always a necklace, it just goes well since I wear alot of shirts with open buttons uptop or ts with v-necks etc...

Sometimes if I'm in real partymood I'll put on some really fly pilotshades :) Those HUGE ones :p Just for kicks.

This obviously isn't something everyone can pull of or wear, I'm not sure how it will fit in america either. I live in scandinavia and well we are rather big fashion*****s or stuff around here.

Most important thing is that you dress who you are... That is it MUST FEEL GREAT TO WEAR THE CLOTHES!! You must LOVE the outfit, how it feels, how it looks. It must fit YOU and your personality. Congruency is VERY important!
 
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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
For anyone interested in the whole thread go

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/read?142777,16

And you can see some replies, even some additions that are nice.


This HAS BEEN Field tested ALOT and even several ASFrs tested this out with amazing results so do not diss it until you have tried it.
Could you post the archive link for it? Great post BTW!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Boner da Stoner

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Bump

Since it is so obvious the DJ initiates are not reading the DJB like they should be.
 

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is it really alright to rub ur boner on a chick while grinding? last night at prom i was grinding with this one girl for a while and i got a massive boner. she definitely noticed it though.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wow, just wow.
i went to a dance party in a warehouse using these techniques after reading them, and i got into 2 girls pants and effectively making 1 *** all over the place.
this **** works so well it's amazing
i think the circular motion with increasing pressure toward the pvssy does the trick, it turns them on so hard
 
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