"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dance magic and power of eyes

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THANK YOU!!! This is gold! I love to dance to all types of music but the club grind is my weakest point because I didn't know how to escalate. You've really helped me!

I have a couple questions I'll post after I've read the entire thread in the other forum.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey, I've spotted a few people wondering how to get the 'rhythm' of the music so they can dance a bit better. Someone suggested practicing in front of the mirror.

Something I've found that works even better is to buy yourself a GOOD webcam, preferably with a microphone (mine is about £60-70, dunno what's good in dollars!).

You can then use it to film yourself (looking like a right idiot? :)) in your flat, and you don't have to keep looking in a mirror to watch how you're doing. Another bonus is the video will show what you look like from ANY angle, not just straight on like the mirror does.

-> Beethoven
 

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The rotation thing was a little confusing, had to read it a few times to get it, but this stuff is gold man, i'll definatly be trying this stuff out, thanks
 

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alright so we got ur technique down pat, now when u go to clubs what do u wear? Jeans and button up shirt? Or whats the style to go with.
 

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Got any good websites with dancing tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by Kourt
alright so we got ur technique down pat, now when u go to clubs what do u wear? Jeans and button up shirt? Or whats the style to go with.
Me? Depends abit what kind of venue I'm going to. Since I'm also into the tranceunderground community I go to those kind of events too...

Normally it's:

Pants:
- Vintage jeans (I have like 5 different pairs of 100+$ vintage jeans). You know the kind, good form and fit, it has faded patterns/whiskers etc.

Shirt:
- Either a fly buttonup shirt (I NEVER EVER wear just a onecolored simple shirt, it either has stripes, a pattern or wrinkly or whatever). Never buttoned up fully, always 2-3 top buttons open. Sometimes I wear a singlet/sleeveless underneath then I often only have one or zero buttons done.

- T-shirts. I love good tshirts, I love them tight over the chest and arms too, not SUPERTIGHT but fitting. Again cool but not tacky shirts, simple but stylish.

I like both t-shirts and shirts to sit good over the chestarea and arms.


Jacket:
I very often wear a blazer too, a black one (black or blue ones with pinstripes is RAD too!). I normally take this of before or while dancing.


Shoes:
Red leather shoes!
http://www.bianco.com/collection/viewer.asp?section=men&page=1&style=3
Those are practically identical to mine :) I either wear those, or a black pair that is very simular or another pair that are more rustic coloured but in cloth instead of leather (more sportish).


Accessories:
Depends abit on venue/what i'm going to but often either a beanie or a visor, depends abit on my hairday and how I want it to look and what style I'm going with.

Sometimes a sweatband on my wrist (black one), fits very well with trancetype environments/clubs.

Always a necklace, it just goes well since I wear alot of shirts with open buttons uptop or ts with v-necks etc...

Sometimes if I'm in real partymood I'll put on some really fly pilotshades :) Those HUGE ones :p Just for kicks.

This obviously isn't something everyone can pull of or wear, I'm not sure how it will fit in america either. I live in scandinavia and well we are rather big fashion*****s or stuff around here.

Most important thing is that you dress who you are... That is it MUST FEEL GREAT TO WEAR THE CLOTHES!! You must LOVE the outfit, how it feels, how it looks. It must fit YOU and your personality. Congruency is VERY important!
 
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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
For anyone interested in the whole thread go

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/read?142777,16

And you can see some replies, even some additions that are nice.


This HAS BEEN Field tested ALOT and even several ASFrs tested this out with amazing results so do not diss it until you have tried it.
Could you post the archive link for it? Great post BTW!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bump

Since it is so obvious the DJ initiates are not reading the DJB like they should be.
 

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is it really alright to rub ur boner on a chick while grinding? last night at prom i was grinding with this one girl for a while and i got a massive boner. she definitely noticed it though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wow, just wow.
i went to a dance party in a warehouse using these techniques after reading them, and i got into 2 girls pants and effectively making 1 *** all over the place.
this **** works so well it's amazing
i think the circular motion with increasing pressure toward the pvssy does the trick, it turns them on so hard
 
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