"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dance in 18 hours, help!

tom121

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There is this rave dance me and my buddies are attending... in 18 hours

I need to learn how to dance 1on1 with a lady

I know the basic dances that teenagers do, like grinding and etc...

but that's all I could do bascially, if I do other dance I feel stupid lol

help me please!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Beatflux

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People don't grind at raves. They glowstick and liquid and sometimes pop. Ever hear of the figure 8?
 

evolvingnerd

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drink and copy
then after a wh ile u'll learn to start making ur own **** up
that's what happened to me ;)

the good thing is though uve already resolved to dance so the major barrier is passed
 

tom121

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oh did i mention i will be smoking weed,drinking vodka before the rave and ecstasy during the dance? :D

what's figure 8?
 

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did i mention i will be smoking weed,drinking vodka before the rave and ecstasy during the dance
Ha yeah well don't smoke yourself retarded before the dance, just pack one bowl, be careful when drinking booze on XTC. Overheat bigtime then your ****ed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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