"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dance in 18 hours, help!

tom121

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There is this rave dance me and my buddies are attending... in 18 hours

I need to learn how to dance 1on1 with a lady

I know the basic dances that teenagers do, like grinding and etc...

but that's all I could do bascially, if I do other dance I feel stupid lol

help me please!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Beatflux

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People don't grind at raves. They glowstick and liquid and sometimes pop. Ever hear of the figure 8?
 

evolvingnerd

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drink and copy
then after a wh ile u'll learn to start making ur own **** up
that's what happened to me ;)

the good thing is though uve already resolved to dance so the major barrier is passed
 

tom121

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oh did i mention i will be smoking weed,drinking vodka before the rave and ecstasy during the dance? :D

what's figure 8?
 

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did i mention i will be smoking weed,drinking vodka before the rave and ecstasy during the dance
Ha yeah well don't smoke yourself retarded before the dance, just pack one bowl, be careful when drinking booze on XTC. Overheat bigtime then your ****ed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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