"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damnit.

cognac

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There's this cute Korean woman at my work. She works in a different department so I don't see her that much, so I'm not worried about the whole work and play spiel. Well she had been giving me IOI's and all that crapola and giving off the vibe if you know what I mean. Always giving me the eye and smiling and laughing.

Well I just couldn't bring myself to ask her out because I was fawning over that one attention ***** girl that lives in another state. Who I just cut out of my life. yeah just thinking about that situation makes my stomach churn. lol. Now that I am content on asking her out I found out from someone at work she just recently started dating someone. She's still flirty with me but just not as much anymore. I'm about to ask her out but I dunno if I wanna hear the words I'm dating someone now come out of her mouth. Sheesh, missed opportunity or just still go in for the kill?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desert Fox

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Stop being a pvssy.

Are you a fvcking girl? Do you gossip about your coworkers and go home to finger your vagina? Seriously dude listen to yourself.

She's dating someone? You do know most people are fvcktards right? Ever played that game telephone? That game teaches you at a young age people are basically fvcktards that can't do a simple thing like repeat what they hear correctly to another person.

That said, ignore your idiot coworker gossip. Bring out your d1ck again which you have retracted into your pelvis like a turtle. Bring out your balls.

Here is what you do:

1. Ask her out to do some cool sh1t that you find cool. That way if she turns out to be a boring sh1t you'll still have fun. It's all about you.

2. If she says she's seeing someone say, "oh when's the wedding?"

3. She will laugh and say "oh it's not that serious."

4. Bam you're in. Ask her again and if she resists say "don't worry its not that serious. It'll be fun. I'm assuming you like to have fun?"

Everyone likes to have fun. They will always reply in the affirmative. Unless they are losers/sociopaths. Now you're on your date, kino and be funny and do all that bullsh1t and bang her at the end of the night. PEACE.
 
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