"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Damnit.

cognac

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There's this cute Korean woman at my work. She works in a different department so I don't see her that much, so I'm not worried about the whole work and play spiel. Well she had been giving me IOI's and all that crapola and giving off the vibe if you know what I mean. Always giving me the eye and smiling and laughing.

Well I just couldn't bring myself to ask her out because I was fawning over that one attention ***** girl that lives in another state. Who I just cut out of my life. yeah just thinking about that situation makes my stomach churn. lol. Now that I am content on asking her out I found out from someone at work she just recently started dating someone. She's still flirty with me but just not as much anymore. I'm about to ask her out but I dunno if I wanna hear the words I'm dating someone now come out of her mouth. Sheesh, missed opportunity or just still go in for the kill?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desert Fox

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Stop being a pvssy.

Are you a fvcking girl? Do you gossip about your coworkers and go home to finger your vagina? Seriously dude listen to yourself.

She's dating someone? You do know most people are fvcktards right? Ever played that game telephone? That game teaches you at a young age people are basically fvcktards that can't do a simple thing like repeat what they hear correctly to another person.

That said, ignore your idiot coworker gossip. Bring out your d1ck again which you have retracted into your pelvis like a turtle. Bring out your balls.

Here is what you do:

1. Ask her out to do some cool sh1t that you find cool. That way if she turns out to be a boring sh1t you'll still have fun. It's all about you.

2. If she says she's seeing someone say, "oh when's the wedding?"

3. She will laugh and say "oh it's not that serious."

4. Bam you're in. Ask her again and if she resists say "don't worry its not that serious. It'll be fun. I'm assuming you like to have fun?"

Everyone likes to have fun. They will always reply in the affirmative. Unless they are losers/sociopaths. Now you're on your date, kino and be funny and do all that bullsh1t and bang her at the end of the night. PEACE.
 
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