"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Damnit I can't talk!

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After starting to read the DJ Bible, Im gaining some insight, motivation, some kick's in the ass . . . etc..

So I wan't to improve my social skills, as I seem to have none.

So when entering the elevator, in my building, all I can simply manage is a "Hi", without eye contact AND a smile.

But I just don't seem to have enought balls to start a convo!

And I'm not talking 8's or 9's. Just average ordinary women, men..

I'd like to start convos but can't think of things to say, let alone, Im in my teens, and thinking of talking to adult, just seems proposterous!

Anyways . .

I need a swift kick in the ass! Thanks. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Conversation skills, in my opinion, are something you learn over the course of time. You're not going to get it overnight. There are a million things to talk about and a million ways to talk about each one. I guess an elevator is a pretty uncomfortable place to be in with a bunch of other people that aren't saying anything.

Then again I've been known to say some pretty crazy things. Some of them are so wierd I can't even remember them. This pretty, little freshman once stepped on the back of my feet--I turned around, looked down at her, and she said in this very very little apologetic whisper "sorry." I then said something completely off the wall in a voice far too ****y and quickly walked away.

One other time I was running up some stairs. Then I fell flat on my face, and I looked up and this pretty blonde girl was giggling at me and wouldn't stop. Naturally I blushed, started up again, but before I left I turned to her, looked her in her shiny golden eyes, and said "laugh not at me." Then I left.

So where were we...oh yeah, your skills. If you can't think of anything, say something wierd and off the wall. It might work and it might not, but it's better than nothing. If you're never going to see the people in the elevator again then you're not risking anything in the first place.
 
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