"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Damnit I can't talk!

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After starting to read the DJ Bible, Im gaining some insight, motivation, some kick's in the ass . . . etc..

So I wan't to improve my social skills, as I seem to have none.

So when entering the elevator, in my building, all I can simply manage is a "Hi", without eye contact AND a smile.

But I just don't seem to have enought balls to start a convo!

And I'm not talking 8's or 9's. Just average ordinary women, men..

I'd like to start convos but can't think of things to say, let alone, Im in my teens, and thinking of talking to adult, just seems proposterous!

Anyways . .

I need a swift kick in the ass! Thanks. :rolleyes:
 

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Conversation skills, in my opinion, are something you learn over the course of time. You're not going to get it overnight. There are a million things to talk about and a million ways to talk about each one. I guess an elevator is a pretty uncomfortable place to be in with a bunch of other people that aren't saying anything.

Then again I've been known to say some pretty crazy things. Some of them are so wierd I can't even remember them. This pretty, little freshman once stepped on the back of my feet--I turned around, looked down at her, and she said in this very very little apologetic whisper "sorry." I then said something completely off the wall in a voice far too ****y and quickly walked away.

One other time I was running up some stairs. Then I fell flat on my face, and I looked up and this pretty blonde girl was giggling at me and wouldn't stop. Naturally I blushed, started up again, but before I left I turned to her, looked her in her shiny golden eyes, and said "laugh not at me." Then I left.

So where were we...oh yeah, your skills. If you can't think of anything, say something wierd and off the wall. It might work and it might not, but it's better than nothing. If you're never going to see the people in the elevator again then you're not risking anything in the first place.
 
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