"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Damn why every hot chick that is attracted to me has a bf

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well, ive told my story before here...well i'll tell it again.

at my university there is this girl that I kinda like that has a bf for 3years.

Shes kinda showing me interest asking bout my past relationship,researching
bout my past and asking me out...Well, i dont know whta to do bout this till now...

And then there's this another girl that was also hot...much more lads are fantasizing this girl compare to the latter.But i found her not too exceptional..
By the way she's the campus queen of the univesity...My clssmates told me..

Everytime this girl sees me,she's wetting her pants..You know..All of her friends knows me...I dunno...Her friends tell me she's into me.She smiles at me everytime.But she also has a BF...Damn!

There are many single girl out there but they arent as hot as those two..Or atleast not worthy...LOLz...

What do I do?Who shall I choose?

Going to wait for serious replies..

Thanks in advance..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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One more thing...

If I choose this campus queen of our university, what will be my strategy...

Probably her head is on the sky cause of her status...Should I use negs?

Also I like the girl with a bf for three years more...

Help...please...
 

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Strategy: Be a man!
 

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^^ There's a start.


Stop asking other guys for opinions. Ever tried following your own instincts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BTW I repulse the girl woth a bf of 3yrs and shes look kinda upset...

So I texted her this night. WHat do you will happen next between us? I mean,
will she avoid me or something?

Waaaa....Damn confusing?!
 

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Before anything, what do you want with these women? relationship, or just having a good FVCK.. (time)?

If you want a girlfriend, just keep looking with the other billions women out there and see them as friends only.

In the second case (just want sex:

First, remove the "boyfriend" limiting belief. It doesn't matter really. They're already attracted to you, and will find another male to fvck their brains if you don't take action. Don't overthink it.

Second, you already know them and they trust you, feel in confort around you (basically it means you're halfway there). Just call them one day to hang out with you, invite them to your apartment (if you live alone), or anyplace you are ISOLATED.

Third, grab her hand, touch her face, kiss her, hug her, and fvck her. Don't worry, the boyfriend won't be there.

Bonus step: if you give her great sex, she'll be coming for more, and she'll ask you what is your relationship status. Then, my friend, you will have the option to choose a girlfriend of just casual sex.

It's that simple.
 

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I prefer casual sex but these girls probably want serious relationship...

This kind of girl has been gaining population recently...

Thanks for advice Ojete...I'll try inviting them to my place...BTW the girl with a bf of three years is a japanese and conservtive...Im not really close to the other one...
 

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Hmm, if you were better than their boyfriends, wouldn't they leave them for you?
I dont think im better...But I dont think Im on disadvantage...Their BF I think has a job(the japanese one) while i still at the univesity...
 

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I tend to believe that there's a lot of randomness in this kind of things, in other words: luck.

Almost all the attractive females that showed attraction to me and almost all the hot girls I've pursued and who responded positively, as long as I can remember, they have all been taken, in one way or another.

I don't want to type any details here because it would be too long...:rolleyes:

Many times, you just appear in their life either "too early" (they are still "in love" with someone) or "too late" (they just entered a serious relationship a couple of months ago). But the most common case, in my humble opinion, is attractive women/girls who have been in a happy relationship with the same guy for years.
She's "happy", but she's "bored", she wants to spice things up a little. She wants to feel beautiful, she needs to reassure herself that she still has "market value".
So she's "friendly", she's flirty, because anyway she's already taken so she doesn't risk anything. If things start to turn bad, she can always drop the boyfriend/fiancé card and hide behind it.

In my experience (that I sincerely hope is not representative:rolleyes: ), when you meet new people, new groups of girls, the most friendly and most flirty ones with you are usually the taken ones. They might like what they see: you, but they are doing it just for the fun.

Single girls who are very interested in you won't be that straightforward with you before a LONG time. Because she's single, she fears rejection. Because she's attractive, she doesn't want people to know that she's single so she won't be harassed by hords of loser guys who will try to hit on her. Because she's single and interested, she doesn't want to fvck it up, so she "takes her time".

At the sametime, I've also known guys who are "lucky", who always land on the right spots on the right time. I guess it's just life.



Everything I typed above only concerns relationships, random club hookups are not concerned...:whistle:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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