"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damn why every hot chick that is attracted to me has a bf

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well, ive told my story before here...well i'll tell it again.

at my university there is this girl that I kinda like that has a bf for 3years.

Shes kinda showing me interest asking bout my past relationship,researching
bout my past and asking me out...Well, i dont know whta to do bout this till now...

And then there's this another girl that was also hot...much more lads are fantasizing this girl compare to the latter.But i found her not too exceptional..
By the way she's the campus queen of the univesity...My clssmates told me..

Everytime this girl sees me,she's wetting her pants..You know..All of her friends knows me...I dunno...Her friends tell me she's into me.She smiles at me everytime.But she also has a BF...Damn!

There are many single girl out there but they arent as hot as those two..Or atleast not worthy...LOLz...

What do I do?Who shall I choose?

Going to wait for serious replies..

Thanks in advance..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One more thing...

If I choose this campus queen of our university, what will be my strategy...

Probably her head is on the sky cause of her status...Should I use negs?

Also I like the girl with a bf for three years more...

Help...please...
 

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Strategy: Be a man!
 

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^^ There's a start.


Stop asking other guys for opinions. Ever tried following your own instincts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BTW I repulse the girl woth a bf of 3yrs and shes look kinda upset...

So I texted her this night. WHat do you will happen next between us? I mean,
will she avoid me or something?

Waaaa....Damn confusing?!
 

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Before anything, what do you want with these women? relationship, or just having a good FVCK.. (time)?

If you want a girlfriend, just keep looking with the other billions women out there and see them as friends only.

In the second case (just want sex:

First, remove the "boyfriend" limiting belief. It doesn't matter really. They're already attracted to you, and will find another male to fvck their brains if you don't take action. Don't overthink it.

Second, you already know them and they trust you, feel in confort around you (basically it means you're halfway there). Just call them one day to hang out with you, invite them to your apartment (if you live alone), or anyplace you are ISOLATED.

Third, grab her hand, touch her face, kiss her, hug her, and fvck her. Don't worry, the boyfriend won't be there.

Bonus step: if you give her great sex, she'll be coming for more, and she'll ask you what is your relationship status. Then, my friend, you will have the option to choose a girlfriend of just casual sex.

It's that simple.
 

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I prefer casual sex but these girls probably want serious relationship...

This kind of girl has been gaining population recently...

Thanks for advice Ojete...I'll try inviting them to my place...BTW the girl with a bf of three years is a japanese and conservtive...Im not really close to the other one...
 

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Hmm, if you were better than their boyfriends, wouldn't they leave them for you?
I dont think im better...But I dont think Im on disadvantage...Their BF I think has a job(the japanese one) while i still at the univesity...
 

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I tend to believe that there's a lot of randomness in this kind of things, in other words: luck.

Almost all the attractive females that showed attraction to me and almost all the hot girls I've pursued and who responded positively, as long as I can remember, they have all been taken, in one way or another.

I don't want to type any details here because it would be too long...:rolleyes:

Many times, you just appear in their life either "too early" (they are still "in love" with someone) or "too late" (they just entered a serious relationship a couple of months ago). But the most common case, in my humble opinion, is attractive women/girls who have been in a happy relationship with the same guy for years.
She's "happy", but she's "bored", she wants to spice things up a little. She wants to feel beautiful, she needs to reassure herself that she still has "market value".
So she's "friendly", she's flirty, because anyway she's already taken so she doesn't risk anything. If things start to turn bad, she can always drop the boyfriend/fiancé card and hide behind it.

In my experience (that I sincerely hope is not representative:rolleyes: ), when you meet new people, new groups of girls, the most friendly and most flirty ones with you are usually the taken ones. They might like what they see: you, but they are doing it just for the fun.

Single girls who are very interested in you won't be that straightforward with you before a LONG time. Because she's single, she fears rejection. Because she's attractive, she doesn't want people to know that she's single so she won't be harassed by hords of loser guys who will try to hit on her. Because she's single and interested, she doesn't want to fvck it up, so she "takes her time".

At the sametime, I've also known guys who are "lucky", who always land on the right spots on the right time. I guess it's just life.



Everything I typed above only concerns relationships, random club hookups are not concerned...:whistle:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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