Mintyfresh
Don Juan
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Alright, as a recovering AFC (as well as somebody whos recovering from just general social anxiety disorder) my first attempt at applying the DJ theory goes something like this.
I got this hot chicks number (Id rate her an 8.5) in one of my classes. Called her 2 days later, left a voice mail saying to call me back. She never called back as far as i knew, but next time i saw her she said she called back thinking it was my cell phone (not house phone) and somebody else picked up so she assumed she wrote down the wrong number from her phone. (actually happened)
She apologized for not actually getting in touch with me. I told her that was okay and if she still wanted to hang out sometime. She said yeah maybe this week (our week off). We talked for a half hour and she said she was gonna go, i leaned in to hug her and she leaned in to kiss me, so i kissed her on the cheek. We laughed at how we fvcked that up and i told her its cool because we'll get it right next time.
Called her 2 days later and left a message after she didn't pickup her phone again saying that maybe she could come over and watch a movie or something. Made a joke about how i wasnt sure if it was a good idea because 'the bad girl in her wanted to take advantage of me'.
She hasn't called me back as far as i know. (hopefully the fvckers i live with didn't tell her it was the wrong number again).
Basicly i know not to get one-itis with this chick, but whats the most graceful way to handle when you know a chick likes you but doesn't return a call. Do you wait a few days to call her again, or just continue calling her once a week to try to hookup with her, or do you just wait till you see her again in person (which wouldn't be for 3 weeks in this case)....
Heh i know, i know im probably making too big of a deal over this... and i do have other girls to persue, but this one is definintely my top choice at the moment.
I got this hot chicks number (Id rate her an 8.5) in one of my classes. Called her 2 days later, left a voice mail saying to call me back. She never called back as far as i knew, but next time i saw her she said she called back thinking it was my cell phone (not house phone) and somebody else picked up so she assumed she wrote down the wrong number from her phone. (actually happened)
She apologized for not actually getting in touch with me. I told her that was okay and if she still wanted to hang out sometime. She said yeah maybe this week (our week off). We talked for a half hour and she said she was gonna go, i leaned in to hug her and she leaned in to kiss me, so i kissed her on the cheek. We laughed at how we fvcked that up and i told her its cool because we'll get it right next time.
Called her 2 days later and left a message after she didn't pickup her phone again saying that maybe she could come over and watch a movie or something. Made a joke about how i wasnt sure if it was a good idea because 'the bad girl in her wanted to take advantage of me'.
She hasn't called me back as far as i know. (hopefully the fvckers i live with didn't tell her it was the wrong number again).
Basicly i know not to get one-itis with this chick, but whats the most graceful way to handle when you know a chick likes you but doesn't return a call. Do you wait a few days to call her again, or just continue calling her once a week to try to hookup with her, or do you just wait till you see her again in person (which wouldn't be for 3 weeks in this case)....
Heh i know, i know im probably making too big of a deal over this... and i do have other girls to persue, but this one is definintely my top choice at the moment.