"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damn....off to a good start

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I must admit i have been lurking on here for a while and thought I must just send in a report:

I will update as things go

First week of college and already took me down two HB 9's

First girl: White girl Blonde/Green 5'5" 5'6" about 118

Girl Two: White girl Brown/Brown 5'2 about 110

PS; These are the first two white girls I have ever been with
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Congrats on the sales . . . . dong on bruddah
 

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Uh... can you actually tell us about the appraoches? Maybe that would make this topic worth something.
 

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yeh details my man. it paints the picture for us and gives you a chnace to blabber on about it cause its fun to brag sometimes.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Girl nuber 1 was pretty easy.

Got her at the grocery store in the produce aisle. Just went up to her asked her some stupid questions about how to cook zuchinni. Joked around a little bit about me not knowing how to cook

Talked a little bit more, and she ended up inviting me over to her place and she would cook for me.

We ate. Stayed and watched a movie, she ended up making the first move by telling me she was never with a black guy b4.

We ended up doing it 2 times on her couch

Second girl met at the gym: gave her some **** advice on doing squats. Changed #'s. took 2 phone calls ( called Tues and Wed) to land a date (Wed night). ended up spending the night at my place
 

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Latinas mostly. Actually, Latinas almost always. Like 98%. The other races sometimes appeal to me, but Latinas will always be my favorite. And I'm white, if that matters. <_< >_>
 

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I like latinas too but they're everywhere here i like more exotic women like the few russian and persian and brazilian women you see around here.
 

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Nice work Shorty. But again, maybe more details about how you escalated the attraction, built comfort and rapport, or anything along those lines. Did you let the convo roll naturally or were you gaming her with material? Sarge on Broheem!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well. I Hooked up with Girl#1 from above again last night at her place on her couch.

Her roomate and her man walked in on us (they were comming home) in the middle of us getting at it.

All I heard her (the roomate) say was "Holy shyt that is hot"

Girl is a solid 9 by the way

Any way her and her man go in her room and I could hear them start going at it. This tool lasted like 15 mins and must have lost his nut cause I am still going to town on my girl and I hear the other girl say to her man "why cant you last long like that"


So girl number 1 calls me up today telling me her roomate was questioning her. Asking her what it was like to be with a black man. Told her that we looked sexy together when she saw us

Hopefully if I play my cards right, I will get to bang the roomate, or hopefully a 3 way

keep you guys posted
 

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Sealed the deal last night with Girl #1's roomate

Now gotta get the 3 way on :)
 

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Damn shorty mac...you gotta post some tips for the brotha's..how you convey your sexuality...your confidence and how you carry yourself

I'm in college too...and its time to get it on man..can't wait.

HolyG
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah ShortyMac, I am, I go to university of michigan
 

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I don't believe a word of this. Troll city.

What makes me think that is the comments her roommate makes when she walks in, "that's hot"? Right. Who would say that walking in on a roommate? Doesn't happen. Same with her roommate telling her bf why can't he last as long.

Then, to top it all off, he claims to bang the roommate a day later. Ahhh yeah.
 

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ShortyMac said:
I must admit i have been lurking on here for a while and thought I must just send in a report:

I will update as things go

First week of college and already took me down two HB 9's

First girl: White girl Blonde/Green 5'5" 5'6" about 118

Girl Two: White girl Brown/Brown 5'2 about 110

PS; These are the first two white girls I have ever been with
yea FR's are supposed to be helpful, not just a pointless/made up boast....anyone could do that. :rolleyes:

Actually I call BS. You see her roommate, and the next night you just happen to 'land' her roommate.....whatever.
 

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because I had a good steak that means I am not telling the truth.

That is funny.

Yes so what if I banged her roomate the next night. Remember one thing girls are jealous and they dont like to see another girl have one up on her.

I have never dated a girl where one of her "friends" didnt try to bang me. I know it wasnt because she liked me or was into me. It was her "ace in the hole" if she ever got in a fight with her friend she could say I banged your man

Women a re just like men in that they are competitive. Men do it in sports, t work, physically. Women do it socially, with shoes, purses, and the men they are dateing. Ever here a bunch of girls rip one of their friends apart after she walks away because of the shirt she has on? Women are just catty that way


The sooner you all realize that the better

As for telling you what I did. I can give you the step by step, the play by play, but that wont help.

There is no formula. What works on one will not work on another. There is no "recipie" to getting a girl.

"SoSuave" is just what is says. "Suave" Be cool, be CONFIDENT (most important). and Just go with the flow. Read the signals and act accordingly.

Saying there is a formula for picking up a girl is like saying there is a formula for winning a fight.

Not every opponet is going to attack you the same way, not everyone leads with a left jab, some might kick, some might bite.

The only weapon you can have that is universal is a good defense, know how to protect yourself, and be keen enough to anticipate your opponents next move and be quick enough to defend accordingly and "counter attack"

It may be a poor analogy, but the same goes for chatting up women.

One may be a ball buster, one may be quiet and reserved.

Just do what "Suave" means and be cool and go with the flow.
 

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Well had sex with girl #1's roomate again last night.

Met her at a party and ended up bring her back to my place
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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