"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I must admit i have been lurking on here for a while and thought I must just send in a report:

I will update as things go

First week of college and already took me down two HB 9's

First girl: White girl Blonde/Green 5'5" 5'6" about 118

Girl Two: White girl Brown/Brown 5'2 about 110

PS; These are the first two white girls I have ever been with
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Congrats on the sales . . . . dong on bruddah
 

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Uh... can you actually tell us about the appraoches? Maybe that would make this topic worth something.
 

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yeh details my man. it paints the picture for us and gives you a chnace to blabber on about it cause its fun to brag sometimes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl nuber 1 was pretty easy.

Got her at the grocery store in the produce aisle. Just went up to her asked her some stupid questions about how to cook zuchinni. Joked around a little bit about me not knowing how to cook

Talked a little bit more, and she ended up inviting me over to her place and she would cook for me.

We ate. Stayed and watched a movie, she ended up making the first move by telling me she was never with a black guy b4.

We ended up doing it 2 times on her couch

Second girl met at the gym: gave her some **** advice on doing squats. Changed #'s. took 2 phone calls ( called Tues and Wed) to land a date (Wed night). ended up spending the night at my place
 

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Latinas mostly. Actually, Latinas almost always. Like 98%. The other races sometimes appeal to me, but Latinas will always be my favorite. And I'm white, if that matters. <_< >_>
 

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I like latinas too but they're everywhere here i like more exotic women like the few russian and persian and brazilian women you see around here.
 

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Nice work Shorty. But again, maybe more details about how you escalated the attraction, built comfort and rapport, or anything along those lines. Did you let the convo roll naturally or were you gaming her with material? Sarge on Broheem!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well. I Hooked up with Girl#1 from above again last night at her place on her couch.

Her roomate and her man walked in on us (they were comming home) in the middle of us getting at it.

All I heard her (the roomate) say was "Holy shyt that is hot"

Girl is a solid 9 by the way

Any way her and her man go in her room and I could hear them start going at it. This tool lasted like 15 mins and must have lost his nut cause I am still going to town on my girl and I hear the other girl say to her man "why cant you last long like that"


So girl number 1 calls me up today telling me her roomate was questioning her. Asking her what it was like to be with a black man. Told her that we looked sexy together when she saw us

Hopefully if I play my cards right, I will get to bang the roomate, or hopefully a 3 way

keep you guys posted
 

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Sealed the deal last night with Girl #1's roomate

Now gotta get the 3 way on :)
 

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Damn shorty mac...you gotta post some tips for the brotha's..how you convey your sexuality...your confidence and how you carry yourself

I'm in college too...and its time to get it on man..can't wait.

HolyG
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah ShortyMac, I am, I go to university of michigan
 

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I don't believe a word of this. Troll city.

What makes me think that is the comments her roommate makes when she walks in, "that's hot"? Right. Who would say that walking in on a roommate? Doesn't happen. Same with her roommate telling her bf why can't he last as long.

Then, to top it all off, he claims to bang the roommate a day later. Ahhh yeah.
 

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ShortyMac said:
I must admit i have been lurking on here for a while and thought I must just send in a report:

I will update as things go

First week of college and already took me down two HB 9's

First girl: White girl Blonde/Green 5'5" 5'6" about 118

Girl Two: White girl Brown/Brown 5'2 about 110

PS; These are the first two white girls I have ever been with
yea FR's are supposed to be helpful, not just a pointless/made up boast....anyone could do that. :rolleyes:

Actually I call BS. You see her roommate, and the next night you just happen to 'land' her roommate.....whatever.
 

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because I had a good steak that means I am not telling the truth.

That is funny.

Yes so what if I banged her roomate the next night. Remember one thing girls are jealous and they dont like to see another girl have one up on her.

I have never dated a girl where one of her "friends" didnt try to bang me. I know it wasnt because she liked me or was into me. It was her "ace in the hole" if she ever got in a fight with her friend she could say I banged your man

Women a re just like men in that they are competitive. Men do it in sports, t work, physically. Women do it socially, with shoes, purses, and the men they are dateing. Ever here a bunch of girls rip one of their friends apart after she walks away because of the shirt she has on? Women are just catty that way


The sooner you all realize that the better

As for telling you what I did. I can give you the step by step, the play by play, but that wont help.

There is no formula. What works on one will not work on another. There is no "recipie" to getting a girl.

"SoSuave" is just what is says. "Suave" Be cool, be CONFIDENT (most important). and Just go with the flow. Read the signals and act accordingly.

Saying there is a formula for picking up a girl is like saying there is a formula for winning a fight.

Not every opponet is going to attack you the same way, not everyone leads with a left jab, some might kick, some might bite.

The only weapon you can have that is universal is a good defense, know how to protect yourself, and be keen enough to anticipate your opponents next move and be quick enough to defend accordingly and "counter attack"

It may be a poor analogy, but the same goes for chatting up women.

One may be a ball buster, one may be quiet and reserved.

Just do what "Suave" means and be cool and go with the flow.
 

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Well had sex with girl #1's roomate again last night.

Met her at a party and ended up bring her back to my place
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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