"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damn It...

biker_gixxer

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Can't believe I slipped fellas. I was doing everything perfect chatting this girl up (no, not email, lol). Laying down the C&F rountine, making her work for my attention (which she loved by the way), etc. And for whatever freaking reason, I started to show her 'more' attention that I should have. So what started to happen? Exactly! She started to 'back off' a bit.
Someone slap me around!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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biker_gixxer

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haha, thanks bro! I wish I could kick my own ass, like in the movie Fight Club. :D
 

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Take this as a learning experience, that's the only way you'll become successful.


SLAP just cause I feel like slapping someone today. Thx.
 
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