wskbb
Don Juan
I number closed a few girls at the club and they showed major interest in me.
I followed the 3 days rule then called to arrange a first date with specific time and place, they'd agreed. and i dont call / text them before the first date. I met them Thursday, called them next Monday to arrange 1st date on the coming Saturday. Usually, i got flaked on a day or two before the date.
flake 1, 23 hours prior, via text :
girl1 : "sorry wskbb, i got to study my exam and do my paper, can't make it to the date"
flake 2, 30 mins prior, via text :
girl2 : "are we still going out for dinner?"
(mind you, i reminded her about the date 2 days before and she confirmed with me)
me : yes!
girl2 : "i thought it was canceled since you didn't call to confirm with me, i'm going out later after the dinnner so im gonna have to take awhilre,
can you wait?"
me : "nah, let's do it some other time...." then proceed to delete her number.
was i supposed to keep in touch with them before the first date?
i sure as hell not want to get flaked on again......pls help.
I followed the 3 days rule then called to arrange a first date with specific time and place, they'd agreed. and i dont call / text them before the first date. I met them Thursday, called them next Monday to arrange 1st date on the coming Saturday. Usually, i got flaked on a day or two before the date.
flake 1, 23 hours prior, via text :
girl1 : "sorry wskbb, i got to study my exam and do my paper, can't make it to the date"
flake 2, 30 mins prior, via text :
girl2 : "are we still going out for dinner?"
(mind you, i reminded her about the date 2 days before and she confirmed with me)
me : yes!
girl2 : "i thought it was canceled since you didn't call to confirm with me, i'm going out later after the dinnner so im gonna have to take awhilre,
can you wait?"
me : "nah, let's do it some other time...." then proceed to delete her number.
was i supposed to keep in touch with them before the first date?
i sure as hell not want to get flaked on again......pls help.