"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damn it feels good to be single again

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crazyman11

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I just got back in the game last week, and damn it feels good :D . It has its pluses, and minuses, but i am pretty happy that i'm not with that girl anymore :D. Now, to the question. I got my eye on a couple girls now, but am i rushing it? I mean, sometimes i feel a little bit bad that i'm single, but that's for like 5 seconds out of maybe 24 hours. What do you guys think? Should I wait a little longer until i start hitting on girls? Will everyone think i'm a player if i do that(which is the main thing i'm worried about)? How will i know when i'm ready to get back in the game?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your ready when your ready. Sounds to me like you already are. The thing is you just gotta be a bit careful about other people, if you broke up like yesterday you might get a lil bit of a bad rep from the girls if you started hittin' on everyone. Just wait a week or something and your good to go imo.
 
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My general rule of thumb is if you broke up with her you need to wait a bit so you dont come off as cold and heartless to the other girls. Wait like a week... Unless you broke up with her becasue of something she did like cheated on you.

If she broke up with you then you can start gaming right away. Even using it to your advantage I would say is appropiate. If my girlfriend broke up with me tonight I know a couple of girls I could go to for "emotional support" and end up getting head if I played it right.
 
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