Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Damn it feels good to be single again

crazyman11

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I just got back in the game last week, and damn it feels good :D . It has its pluses, and minuses, but i am pretty happy that i'm not with that girl anymore :D. Now, to the question. I got my eye on a couple girls now, but am i rushing it? I mean, sometimes i feel a little bit bad that i'm single, but that's for like 5 seconds out of maybe 24 hours. What do you guys think? Should I wait a little longer until i start hitting on girls? Will everyone think i'm a player if i do that(which is the main thing i'm worried about)? How will i know when i'm ready to get back in the game?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SinJester

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Your ready when your ready. Sounds to me like you already are. The thing is you just gotta be a bit careful about other people, if you broke up like yesterday you might get a lil bit of a bad rep from the girls if you started hittin' on everyone. Just wait a week or something and your good to go imo.
 

john paul

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My general rule of thumb is if you broke up with her you need to wait a bit so you dont come off as cold and heartless to the other girls. Wait like a week... Unless you broke up with her becasue of something she did like cheated on you.

If she broke up with you then you can start gaming right away. Even using it to your advantage I would say is appropiate. If my girlfriend broke up with me tonight I know a couple of girls I could go to for "emotional support" and end up getting head if I played it right.
 
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