Stop posting.DasaniWater said:LMAO! Shut up kid.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Stop posting.DasaniWater said:LMAO! Shut up kid.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hint: You spent 8 Hours making a present for a broad that doesn't respect you.DasaniWater said:Oh, no problem. I understand why you're so dumb now.
Yeah, this is seriously going to help me improve..
Perfect answer...Blusher said:AFC behaviour
---> decrease of Interest Level + no flexibility
---> Reinforced by further AFC behaviour [you give her a gift, she should be calling to thanks you but since she's not into you anymore and is considering dumping you that was like handing her a hand grenade]
---> She feels guilt
---> ********
---> you sense something's wrong
---> AFC-stalking behaviour [you called 10 times? wtf? Have you ever read any of the LTR advice on this site?]
---> Further decrease of IL
---> Game Over
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your just not that interesting to her anymore... and she has got better things to do!!! Can you blame her... Its a big ocean out there and there are plenty of better fish for her (and incidentally for you too)Laugh if you must, flame if u must. I just need to know, am i being too pushy and rude, or was it her that was rude? i was deciding to not call her for a week and not see her for 2 weeks and blow off any plan for the weekend. But i dont know maybe i shouldnt.. give me some helpful advice please.
Dude, you really need an ass kicking. Now I wish that I could do it for you just cause you're so dumb... but you're going to do it for me.DasaniWater said:I dont need useless advice from a 17 year old. go away.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yo sheeet yo. I was up with MA girl and Yous guys SOOOOO don't understand what WE GOT GOIN ON! You DeeeeJaaaay nerds.DonJuanForever said:You are an attention gettin troll.
Stop posting. How many threads have you made in teh last 2 days, about 5?
Next he'll be posting his "expert advice" on LOOKS are what gets you laid.
wow, you actually went back and found all this dude's posts in all the other threads? now that is trollish!DasaniWater said:LMAO?!
I dont need advice to someone who falls in love with girls and never does anything about it. Thank you.
How many years you've been with this girl?DasaniWater said:Well, i made this picture for my girl friend in photoshop, took me about 8 hours total, i went to walgreens had it printed off the cd at 8x10. Bought a picture frame, wrapping paper, tape, ruler, gift card and all that ****.
You do realize that Dasani was a troll?Bvbidd said:I like how some of these guys calling Dasani a loser have never touched pvssy before.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.