Stop posting.DasaniWater said:LMAO! Shut up kid.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Stop posting.DasaniWater said:LMAO! Shut up kid.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hint: You spent 8 Hours making a present for a broad that doesn't respect you.DasaniWater said:Oh, no problem. I understand why you're so dumb now.
Yeah, this is seriously going to help me improve..
Perfect answer...Blusher said:AFC behaviour
---> decrease of Interest Level + no flexibility
---> Reinforced by further AFC behaviour [you give her a gift, she should be calling to thanks you but since she's not into you anymore and is considering dumping you that was like handing her a hand grenade]
---> She feels guilt
---> ********
---> you sense something's wrong
---> AFC-stalking behaviour [you called 10 times? wtf? Have you ever read any of the LTR advice on this site?]
---> Further decrease of IL
---> Game Over
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your just not that interesting to her anymore... and she has got better things to do!!! Can you blame her... Its a big ocean out there and there are plenty of better fish for her (and incidentally for you too)Laugh if you must, flame if u must. I just need to know, am i being too pushy and rude, or was it her that was rude? i was deciding to not call her for a week and not see her for 2 weeks and blow off any plan for the weekend. But i dont know maybe i shouldnt.. give me some helpful advice please.
Dude, you really need an ass kicking. Now I wish that I could do it for you just cause you're so dumb... but you're going to do it for me.DasaniWater said:I dont need useless advice from a 17 year old. go away.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yo sheeet yo. I was up with MA girl and Yous guys SOOOOO don't understand what WE GOT GOIN ON! You DeeeeJaaaay nerds.DonJuanForever said:You are an attention gettin troll.
Stop posting. How many threads have you made in teh last 2 days, about 5?
Next he'll be posting his "expert advice" on LOOKS are what gets you laid.
wow, you actually went back and found all this dude's posts in all the other threads? now that is trollish!DasaniWater said:LMAO?!
I dont need advice to someone who falls in love with girls and never does anything about it. Thank you.
How many years you've been with this girl?DasaniWater said:Well, i made this picture for my girl friend in photoshop, took me about 8 hours total, i went to walgreens had it printed off the cd at 8x10. Bought a picture frame, wrapping paper, tape, ruler, gift card and all that ****.
You do realize that Dasani was a troll?Bvbidd said:I like how some of these guys calling Dasani a loser have never touched pvssy before.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.