"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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damn im falling down!

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guys its terrible.. i did beat my girlfriend two days ago.. it was really terrible..actually first she started than i could not stand.. i know i could not have done this ****..but done is done..what can i say..damn rigt..since than i tried to apologize couple of times but no way.. i told her im so sorry whatso ever.. i think i should drive on though its fcvking hard..since i do really love her...what do you think guys? give me some suggesttions plz..

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm gonna go way out on a limb here and suggest you NOT beat your next girlfriend if you want to stay with her. Now this is all theoretical but you may wanna give it a try!

Trapper \/ HB \/
:cuss: :eek: "Hi Hunni!"

Trapper: What b!tch! :box:

HB: Noooooo!!!!! :cry:

:crackup: I slay me.
 

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Actually, i would think she's the one falling down, but i digress
I'm gonna go way out on a limb here and suggest you NOT beat your next girlfriend if you want to stay with her. Now this is all theoretical but you may wanna give it a try!

Trapper: :cuss:

HB: welcome home honey! :eek:

Trapper: What b!tch! :box:

HB: Noooooo!!!!! :cry:

:crackup: I slay me.

(Oops, double post. The second is the good one)
 

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oh man.. its not funny really... its quite serious..
 

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It is serious. You may want to get your anger under control, take some classes, something. Unless you see yourself as an abusive man. That's not cool, and you could get into some serious trouble.

Don't let it happen again. And you're in no position to be with someone if you think it could happen again.

Get control of yourself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sorry, but you can paint yourself the victim all you want, I ain't buyin it. If you love your woman, you don't whoop her @ss, plain and simple math. :nono:
 

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Hello,

I hate guys like you. I hopes she leaves you for another man who will treat her right. Nothing pisses me off more than hearing that a women is in an abusive relationship and she sticks around for more lickings.

Regards
 

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Actually, aside from the good chat we're having here, do you think it's really a good idea to post a thread here about beating a chick up? You may want to

a: get your act together and
b: delete this thread.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maxtro.........i never been there okay.. i know who im and im fcvking totally against this whatever you call...im not that kind of abusive man.. Im educated and i know whats up man... it just happened man.. we were drunk not much and she started punching me..and kept on going allrite.. then i could not stand man ... somewhat she forced me to do man..what could i have done there? and the point i wanna ask is what can i do from now on?
 

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reset... man i know it sounds so bad okay..and its a big shame to me.. but life is not all about chasing girls and life is not always up.. it has downs also..face with the realities sometimes..
 

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Right. Delete the thread.
 

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Was she just playing with you and you suddenly got up started beating her?
 

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I've had anger issues my whole life, in fact it runs in my family. But even I know that If for some reason you ever feel like you might even want to hit a women you need to WALK AWAY.

As for what to do, in my mind there is nothing you can do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trapper said:
We were drunk not much and she started punching me..and kept on going allrite.. then i could not stand man ... somewhat she forced me to do man..what could i have done there?
She FORCED YOU? Did she have a gun to your head? She didn't FORCE you to do sh!t!!!! What you could have done was leave. If she was hitting you, you leave. Simple!

For the future:
*GET HELP FOR ANGER MANAGEMENT! BOTH OF YOU!
*Stop drinking! (Doesn't sound like you two are "happy drunks")
*STOP calling her. Leave her alone for a couple days and let her calm down. Then try apologizing.
 

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Hand yourself in to the local police station.

But you are OUT FOREVER with this girl, she will NEVER be able to look at you in the same way again.

Even if she 'forgives' you, she'll always keep the time you beat her in her mind and hold that against you in every single tiny wrong thing you do.
Its OVER with her FOREVER.
 
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