"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Damn, I forgot that!

Squy

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I consider this a health problem :)

Why is it that I often forget about stuff??? Take today, just recently I freaking forgot to attend my karate training, which was supposed to begin 3 hours ago. Actually this is the first time, I complete forgot the entire training (I was busy reading books on my pc, and in the same time, download a bunch of stuff).
However there are many other things that I forgot over and over again.
Like on Friday, unlike usually the training start at 18:30 instead of 19:00 like on Monday, and Wednesday. I often find myself come at 19:00 instead of 18:30...
Another example is that I forgot over and over things that my Mom tell me to do, like take in the laundry, do shopping, cook some food, vacuum and so on.
Other people consider me as scatterbrained. But I consider myself as very normal though.

Is there no possible ways to make me remember?? Other than put those stuff in the schedule of my cellphone (make it alerts me when it's time)
Help!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Write notes on paper of what you have to do. Then when you see the paper you'll remember to go, or if you have a photographic memory you'll remember it.

If someone tells me something I sometimes forget, but if I write it down I never do.
 

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The answer to your problem may be something you don't want to hear...If you do what I say though you won't have this problem anymore, but it's up to you to do it or not.

Buy a journal book from Grand&Toy or some other such place..

Get used to constantly referring to your journal and the idea of time management. Writing as opposed to just thinking of what you have to do for a given day, will help you in remembering as well.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Squy,

I was the same way, until just recently I started a journal writing down things. It's helped me alot in remembering things (there something about writing things down while your thinking about it that really helps you remember things) and it's helping me in other areas of my life as well.

Just to offer an example, this is what I do each day (actually each night before I goto sleep) in my journal:

-Today's date
2/3/02

-What I did today: (list)
Played Soccer
Went to Fencing Club
Hung out with Friends

-Things I can improve on:
Take a rest from so much sports, your overdoing it and not putting enough focus/time into other areas in your life
Slow down, relax, enjoy life
Think, grow - Be a MAN

-Reflections:
I just tell whats on my mind. Anything that I enjoyed, didn't enjoy.. things I need to work on

-Tomorrow:
Goto Karate Class
Read books for chemistry and philosophy
etc..

-Final Thoughts:
If I think of anything else on my mind I write in down here


This helps alot to focus on what your doing on a day to day basis. Where you can improve on and keeps things in a perpective that you can always go back and look on what you did.

Well I was just throwing that out there.. It's helped me alot, and could probably help you too..

take care Squy,

.Drow
 

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Thanks guys!
I buy myself a journal, or some kind of diary then :)
In the meantime I'll create a text file on my PC, and write down stuff to remember. And of course continue to use my cellphone as a reminder.
 
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