CA,
You have to decide for yourself if sh is worth it.
Let's look at something:
You have decided that YOU WANT HER.
Great. You make a move "Listen, babe. I know butthead asked you to the dance. But you don't want that guy. I want to go out with you. I'm your guy, babe. Go with me, babe. I know I'm ten times more fun than blowhard over there. Come on, babe. Come with me. We will have fun together. I WANT to have fun with YOU, babe. Forget that guy. You're coming with me. Because I know you like excitement"
Said with congruent tone of voive, eye contact, kino, and strong direct body language,. Smooth, syuave, confident. You are mutherfvkin' James Bond, man.
Direct. Decisive. And stong and confident approach.
Pros: Direct and to the point. You are stating clearly what you want. Chicks love confidence and they are attracted to guys who "know what they want."
Cons: Rejection. She has stronger attraction to El Chumpo Grande, and NOT you. You are direct, so will she. You may get the DIRECT reject.
But NOW you KNOW........
"make the ho say no" This is what we want.
That way, we can move on with no regrets. Ever.
That way...you act like a MAN with VISION.
Be indirect.
"Hey, I heard the dance is really gonna be fun this year. I really want to go. But I haven't fopund adate yet. I've already asked Jane, mary, and Sally..but they said they either weren;t going or they already have a date. Hey, what are YOU doing that night?"
Meh. Not that strong,. More cautious. Allows her to be cautious too. May look weak, like you're trying to spare yourself rejection. Not so great. I mena..NOT horrible. But not that great IMO.
Pros: Suave. Tactful. Can be well meaning, and said in a nice, but confident manner. With good body language and eye contact and tone of voice, could result. But not that powerful. She may still reject,. but she may be softer with you.
Cons: Looks a littel weak. Still a big margin for error, since it doesn't mask insecurity as well, It's indirect, so somewhat "shady" and timid looking.
Or..
Ignore them, and find another chick. Even if it's an HB5-7.
WHy?
Because as true DJs, we appreciate all women. We enjoy life, and enjoy life with a woman on our arms. ANd a smile on our face even with ANY woman on our arm.
The social vlaue is great. Your self esteem will be boosted, and social proof will be solid and concrete. Self evident.
YOu will still have a good time. And the H5-7 may be more grateful and appreciative of you askinhg HER out. Since no othe rguy did. But you.the true Don Juan..whom appreciates all Ladies, and the COmpany of WOmen...AKSED HER OUT>
Gold, man.
Pure gold.
You still win.Understand?
And there's the final option.
Stay home and whack off while you b*tch and moan about them.
Making yourself angry and bitter and resentful. While they are out havuing a good time. You're home angry and isolated.
Pros: NONE
CONS: You suck. And you accept defeat, loser.
You know what to do.
