"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dammit, missed call... grrrr

sw20racer

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So, I'm hanging out with one of my friends, just drinking and playing computer games on a fridaynight/saturday morning...

come home at 3 in the morning. Around noon, I get up and check my phone... I had a call from a girl I've been talking to at 2 in the morning. I was like NOOOO!!!! How the hell did I miss that? Maybe it was cause my phone was on vibrate mode and it was in my jacket which I had taken off. So, I try calling her today but no one's picking up.

Why else would a girl whom I have shown interest in call me at 2 in the morning?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she was probably drunk, horny and was calling for a booty call.
 
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I think she was calling you at 2am to ask if you had any sleeping pills!! Why in the heck would a girl call a man at 2am!:) I'm being sarcastic! Thank Julian for being so concise in his delivery.
 

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Your blind, aren't you? Ok, you missed the call on a friday night at 2am. Obviously, she thinks your out doing something, and too busy. So, next time you call her, insead of you jumping at her last sudden booty call, she's going to be even more interested since she didn't get you the first time.

Think outside of the box ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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