So Ill keep this as simple as possible, Im currently in a relationship, one I want to break off soon, and started talking to another girl, whos hotter and more of my type, however she just found out that I have a girl friend and has been responding less and less positively than she has in the past. Anyway I can sort out this mess.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Darth_Qurashi
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hehe, i know that situation.
I would say break up with ur gf as soon as possible. Don't waste your time, or money, if you know it's gonna end soon. As long as you have it there, it's gonna weigh you down, its like a big ****block
I would say break up with ur gf as soon as possible. Don't waste your time, or money, if you know it's gonna end soon. As long as you have it there, it's gonna weigh you down, its like a big ****block
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i wouldn't give up a sure thing if the hotter girl wasn't a sure thing
if she knows you broke up for her then she will have more power and it may not go well
if you were gonna dump ur gf already then go for it, being single is cool
if she knows you broke up for her then she will have more power and it may not go well
if you were gonna dump ur gf already then go for it, being single is cool
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are you serious?!?! a "sure thing"? you make it sound like every guy should keep their girlfriend for fear of never being able to get one again. AFC mentalityBananaSmile said:
if he wants to break up with her then why should he stay with her. regardless of whether things work out with the new girl, if things are dead with the old one, he should end it.
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He did say "if you were gonna dump ur gf already then go for it, being single is cool". So he's not really saying "stay in a relationship because you can't find another girl".tobylikestennis said:
OP, how have you handled this situation so far? What have you told your new interest? How have you explained the whole thing to her?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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that's true. i guess i overlooked that sentence. just struck a nerve when i read the "sure thing" thing haha2crudedudes said:
