So Ill keep this as simple as possible, Im currently in a relationship, one I want to break off soon, and started talking to another girl, whos hotter and more of my type, however she just found out that I have a girl friend and has been responding less and less positively than she has in the past. Anyway I can sort out this mess.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Darth_Qurashi
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hehe, i know that situation.
I would say break up with ur gf as soon as possible. Don't waste your time, or money, if you know it's gonna end soon. As long as you have it there, it's gonna weigh you down, its like a big ****block
I would say break up with ur gf as soon as possible. Don't waste your time, or money, if you know it's gonna end soon. As long as you have it there, it's gonna weigh you down, its like a big ****block
BananaSmile
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i wouldn't give up a sure thing if the hotter girl wasn't a sure thing
if she knows you broke up for her then she will have more power and it may not go well
if you were gonna dump ur gf already then go for it, being single is cool
if she knows you broke up for her then she will have more power and it may not go well
if you were gonna dump ur gf already then go for it, being single is cool
iliketennis
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are you serious?!?! a "sure thing"? you make it sound like every guy should keep their girlfriend for fear of never being able to get one again. AFC mentalityBananaSmile said:
if he wants to break up with her then why should he stay with her. regardless of whether things work out with the new girl, if things are dead with the old one, he should end it.
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He did say "if you were gonna dump ur gf already then go for it, being single is cool". So he's not really saying "stay in a relationship because you can't find another girl".tobylikestennis said:
OP, how have you handled this situation so far? What have you told your new interest? How have you explained the whole thing to her?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
iliketennis
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that's true. i guess i overlooked that sentence. just struck a nerve when i read the "sure thing" thing haha2crudedudes said:
