"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Daily Habits

Heisenburger

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Hello Gents,

What do you consider to be good daily habits that you strive to adhere too in life. You know, the little things that go unnoticed, appear trivial but in the long run change you for the better. This could be anything. Health, family, career, money, relationships....

I'll start.

1. I burn off 400 calories everyday at the gym on the cross trainer. This generally takes me between 28-30 mins. My goal is to get under 25 mins.

2. I don't drink coffee or tea at work. Only water.

3. Fruit oatmeal smoothie every morning.

4. Limit tv to 2 hours a day max. Prison break at present.

5. Always looking to learn in my job. Even on the weekends I will search forums specific to my career. And seeking the wisdom of others. I consider my career a huge priority and one you should enjoy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Slickster

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Good ones

1. Consistently get proper amount of sleep.

2. Consistently get exercise.

3. Scrap daily TV and random internet surfing. Substitute teaching yourself a skill or expanding your knowledge. Ie. learn guitar, 2nd language, etc.
 

Mike32ct

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Reading.

If you read at least 10 pages per day (which is nothing), that's a 300-page book every month. You can improve your knowledge of something related to career/business, a hobby/or skill, or any kind of self-improvement.

If you don't like books, Youtube videos or DVD sets on your topics of interest are ok too.
 
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