Dahaha reject by the Chinese girl I mentioned.

[Yuma]

It was weird.

I saw her on the way to my campus's cafeteria this morning going to breakfast. I walked with her and one of her girl friends and we talked for a minute. She smiled a lot and moved really close to me when we were talking, almost abandoning her friend.

The usual how was your day yesterday, what did you do, yada yada i wanna fvck you, etc.

ANYWAY. we get inside and i say "more important than what you did yesterday, what are you doing saturday?"

"oh nothing. i don't have any plans."

"well. i can fix that. "

what follows is the only time out of god knows how many times that this number-get has failed:

do you have a phone?
does that phone have a number?
what is it?/or some variation

she blushes. I mean, she flushed BRIGHT the fvck red and giggles to the point of unintelligibility. She, smiling and not saying a word, walks off.


how in god's name do I proceed after this? I'm pretty sure it'd be beating a dead horse unless someone's got some ideas.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

There is this magical word called ...are you ready???

"PERSISTANCE"

If that didn't exist in men, then we would probably be sitting in the dark by camp fires right now and you wouldn't be having the problems your having.

I think Edison said it took hiim 10,000 ways of finding out that the light bulb didn't work.

How about letting your bizalls drop and be a man. Ask her again until you get a definite NO.

 

[Pathgen]

That wasn't a rejection.... unless she was laughing in a way to suggest that she is somehow more superior to you and you asking her out was like a peasant asking a king....

I doubt that was the case and if it was **** her you dont want a girl like that.

 

[Yuma]

No, it wasn't that kind of laugh. at least, not from what I could tell.

I think she was just nervous or embarrassed or something. She seems really shy and diminutive.

 

[DonJuan11]

It was weird.

I saw her on the way to my campus's cafeteria this morning going to breakfast. I walked with her and one of her girl friends and we talked for a minute. She smiled a lot and moved really close to me when we were talking, almost abandoning her friend.

The usual how was your day yesterday, what did you do, yada yada i wanna fvck you, etc.

ANYWAY. we get inside and i say "more important than what you did yesterday, what are you doing saturday?"

Good

"oh nothing. i don't have any plans."

Good response by her

"well. i can fix that. "

Not a good response here, its too ambiguous. You can fix what? Are you going to tell her to come over to help you fix your flat tire or your TV? You need to set a time and a date to do something with her that you know well and that she is interesting in. You have to find that out before you ask her out, otherwise there is no reason she'll go out with you.

"Oh nothing, I have no plans."

"I would love to take you to a great coffee shop around the corner Saturday morning. They have the best Colombian coffee there and we could talk more about ____.

what follows is the only time out of god knows how many times that this number-get has failed:

do you have a phone?
does that phone have a number?
what is it?/or some variation

she blushes. I mean, she flushed BRIGHT the fvck red and giggles to the point of unintelligibility. She, smiling and not saying a word, walks off.

This is rude and she inexperienced.

The point of getting a woman's number and to go out with you is to get to know her better, to see if you have anything in common. She has to have a reason to go out with you.

This girl seemed to like you but doesn't seem to understand basic courtesy.

 

[Yuma]

I like the feedback. thank you very much!

I'm here to learn. Just to clarify... the number approach was rude? or her walking away was rude?

I'm confused on that.




When I see her next, I'm definitely giving it another go. There's a good chance I can get this.

 

[Prodigy746]

Next time you see her, post her up on it. Ask her what happend to her when you asked for her number?? Tell her she was acting weird and you havent had anyone act like that before when you asked for their number. i would make her feel bad ...

 

[Don Shinra]

is she a fob?

 

[Pathgen]

her walking away was rude...

 

[Avn_0903]

Lol Asian girls r rude I can tell u , IMO if she blushed n giggled that mean she's interested. She probably just didn't want to seem too easy (even w/ just the phone number), Asian girls r especially afraid of being labeled as a slut. Just don't give a fuk n act normally around her