That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Shiit - i put the effort in for realStort_Brød said:put enough effort in and anything is possible bro... 42kg increase in 6 weeks is only adding 7kg per week.... it will be a push but it is far from impossible.
Hahah man after my own heart - yup, shall doStort_Brød said:and on your side note, enjoy it while you are on it bro. go out and leave some poor lil broads pvssy looking like it went through a meat grinder haha
I don't like gear myself but I respect what can be achieved by it. I love the misconception that as soon as you start juicing you instantly get stronger like it is some miracle drug, yet when on the juice you need to push yourself even harder to make the results worth while.Purefilth said:Shiit - i put the effort in for realglute and quads have been giving me grief all day, I know the " 3 day DOMs " are coming!!!
Hahah man after my own heart - yup, shall do![]()
Maybe I wanted you to feel a little uncomfortableStort_Brød said:well settle down there sancho!! a quick "nohomo" after that would have been appropriate lol.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
YEAH!Purefilth said:legs day tomorrow for frontsquat city - lets raise that max, shall we?![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You said it brother!Stort_Brød said:It isn't a good leg day untill you either A) pass out or collapse B) puke
I use liquid chalk/dry hands, helps out alot especially when the temperature is a bit warm.Purefilth said:Also I'm gonna invest in some liquid chalk cos my buddy gave me a little after my grip failed on deadlifts and I am sold.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.