Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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cutting the bullshyt

paraguayandj

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Ok, I haven't gotten much sleep the past couple of days so I am in no thinking mode. Yesterday, I couldn't really focus and think about my game, but i was horny and determined to get laid. So I called up this girl i known for a couple of months and told her to just cut the bullshyt and just have sex with me.
She got kind of offended at first. Then i proceeded to tell her that i knew she is attracted to me and I was attracted to her, but unfortunately if she was out phucking every guy she is attracted to, she will be seen to society as a "slut" so I told her nobody needs to know. I also told her that I know she wants to have sex and to just let it happen. She thought about that for a few seconds and told me that she wanted to phuck too, so i went to her house and got the job done.
I don't know if this could work with every girl. I think that it could only work with mature women but I don't know. Has anybody tried to pull off some shyt like this before?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Only with the GF...

on the phone:

me: hey

her: hey baby

me: baby I want to fk

her: ok come over

I often tell a girl: " hey come over to the house"; they know what that means, but never as direct as you.

I'm proud of you.
 

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Wow! way to go man. I'd be too afraid to say something like that, wouldnt any of u guys be afraid that she might call the cops on u for sexual harrassment, cuz thats what im afraid of
 

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I've done this a few times, but i'm an honest guy and don't see the point in lying. Of course i'm intelligent enough to do this on girls i've got great rapport with and i know that there is some attraction there. I think saying that to a girl who was a friend/didn't feel any attraction would definately be a mistake.
 

paraguayandj

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Hawke said:
I've done this a few times, but i'm an honest guy and don't see the point in lying. Of course i'm intelligent enough to do this on girls i've got great rapport with and i know that there is some attraction there. I think saying that to a girl who was a friend/didn't feel any attraction would definately be a mistake.
We were both attracted to each other nobody made any move thou but yeah I had a lot of rapport with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oh and by the way i didn't force her or anything it was just a leave it or take it situation
 
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