"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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cutting the bullshyt

paraguayandj

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Ok, I haven't gotten much sleep the past couple of days so I am in no thinking mode. Yesterday, I couldn't really focus and think about my game, but i was horny and determined to get laid. So I called up this girl i known for a couple of months and told her to just cut the bullshyt and just have sex with me.
She got kind of offended at first. Then i proceeded to tell her that i knew she is attracted to me and I was attracted to her, but unfortunately if she was out phucking every guy she is attracted to, she will be seen to society as a "slut" so I told her nobody needs to know. I also told her that I know she wants to have sex and to just let it happen. She thought about that for a few seconds and told me that she wanted to phuck too, so i went to her house and got the job done.
I don't know if this could work with every girl. I think that it could only work with mature women but I don't know. Has anybody tried to pull off some shyt like this before?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Only with the GF...

on the phone:

me: hey

her: hey baby

me: baby I want to fk

her: ok come over

I often tell a girl: " hey come over to the house"; they know what that means, but never as direct as you.

I'm proud of you.
 

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Wow! way to go man. I'd be too afraid to say something like that, wouldnt any of u guys be afraid that she might call the cops on u for sexual harrassment, cuz thats what im afraid of
 

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I've done this a few times, but i'm an honest guy and don't see the point in lying. Of course i'm intelligent enough to do this on girls i've got great rapport with and i know that there is some attraction there. I think saying that to a girl who was a friend/didn't feel any attraction would definately be a mistake.
 

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Hawke said:
I've done this a few times, but i'm an honest guy and don't see the point in lying. Of course i'm intelligent enough to do this on girls i've got great rapport with and i know that there is some attraction there. I think saying that to a girl who was a friend/didn't feel any attraction would definately be a mistake.
We were both attracted to each other nobody made any move thou but yeah I had a lot of rapport with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oh and by the way i didn't force her or anything it was just a leave it or take it situation
 
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