"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cutting the bullshyt

paraguayandj

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Ok, I haven't gotten much sleep the past couple of days so I am in no thinking mode. Yesterday, I couldn't really focus and think about my game, but i was horny and determined to get laid. So I called up this girl i known for a couple of months and told her to just cut the bullshyt and just have sex with me.
She got kind of offended at first. Then i proceeded to tell her that i knew she is attracted to me and I was attracted to her, but unfortunately if she was out phucking every guy she is attracted to, she will be seen to society as a "slut" so I told her nobody needs to know. I also told her that I know she wants to have sex and to just let it happen. She thought about that for a few seconds and told me that she wanted to phuck too, so i went to her house and got the job done.
I don't know if this could work with every girl. I think that it could only work with mature women but I don't know. Has anybody tried to pull off some shyt like this before?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Only with the GF...

on the phone:

me: hey

her: hey baby

me: baby I want to fk

her: ok come over

I often tell a girl: " hey come over to the house"; they know what that means, but never as direct as you.

I'm proud of you.
 

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Wow! way to go man. I'd be too afraid to say something like that, wouldnt any of u guys be afraid that she might call the cops on u for sexual harrassment, cuz thats what im afraid of
 

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I've done this a few times, but i'm an honest guy and don't see the point in lying. Of course i'm intelligent enough to do this on girls i've got great rapport with and i know that there is some attraction there. I think saying that to a girl who was a friend/didn't feel any attraction would definately be a mistake.
 

paraguayandj

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Hawke said:
I've done this a few times, but i'm an honest guy and don't see the point in lying. Of course i'm intelligent enough to do this on girls i've got great rapport with and i know that there is some attraction there. I think saying that to a girl who was a friend/didn't feel any attraction would definately be a mistake.
We were both attracted to each other nobody made any move thou but yeah I had a lot of rapport with her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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paraguayandj

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oh and by the way i didn't force her or anything it was just a leave it or take it situation
 
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