"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cutting calories

bliss420

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Ok im 5'6" 165/170lbs lookin to lean down.. im guessin im at appx 12-14% bf coz i can see my abs but they're still sorta covered..

CALCULATIONS:

165PDS/2.2lbs/kg=75 kg (kg conversion)
1. 75*24*1= 1800 (BMR)
2. 1800 *.30 = 600 (activity cals)
Based on 3-5 days of cardio for at least 30 minutes
3. (1800+600)*.10=240 (SDA)
4. 1800+600+240=2640 (we'll call it 2640) (MAINTENANCE)
5. 2140 TO LOSE ONE POUND PER WEEK!


RATIOS:

165G PROTEIN = 660CALS (4)
48G FAT = 0.2*2140=428CALS /9= 48 (9)
263G CARB = 2140-660-428= 1052CALS = 263 (4)

Are these correct??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bliss420

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well im gonna be weight training 3x a week and doing cardio 2-3x a week.. and they're both pretty strenuous.. so why do you say that? you think i need more cals?
 

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if its light cardio, then you should be fine, although you might want to consider upping to 2400.

Do expect slight strength losses.
 
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