"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cutest pick-up in my life.....

lildevil

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HI...this is lildevil...coming to u from a small town of chicago...

The small town Im staying with my aunt...is very quite unlike miami...is very peaceful...and very warm feeling almost like home...even more because my aunt lives in a church her in chicago...


yesterday was a special day ....there was wedding....I didn't sleep...at all night looking at the ceiling(i never sleep a day before a special occasion)


I met very cute girl she was 16....I couldn't talk to her at first..her mom was looking at every move I made plus


even if i could..... i couldn't get myself together...to get a good conversation going without killing her with questions(weird..most of the time this is easy)....

After 10 minutes of reframin in my room...I was ready

I decided to brake the Ice with the mom....before she(mom) knew it...I was telling the her....how young she looked...and the beutiful daughters she had....I gave her advise on overcomin her deppresion...and how I went from being invisible to the world to having the love for life that she can have as well if she looks at life in a positive way...I won her over in a matter of thirty minutes...

I went to play with the her little brothers just for fun...I started giving them piggy back rides...then push ups....They were really liking me and so they called her up(the girl i liked)..to show what I could do...

This time she was near me and I saw my chance to talk to her(but no threads to talk about)..
:cheer:
I went for my life saver the cube...


I aked her if she wanted to play a game...she was really interested after seeing the great conversation i WAS having with her mom i made her close her eyes and imagin....When i was done i told her what everything meant
she was really impressed with what I knew about her with just a simple game....


after I was done

Me:So how good did i do from a scale from 1 to 10
HER:with an amazing smile told me ten!!
Me: (I gave her a great smile) ur really cute:)
Her:Ur look really cute too!!

:)

and so i went for the grand finale I looked in to her eyes and guided her mouth with my hand on her chin and went went for the kiss..in the kiss
in the wedding When they said do u accept her...we were holding hands....but when they said u may kiss the bride we just popped kiss cuz we didn't want to get caught



In a few days(4) im leaving chicago and going back to my life...I need to call her and tell her the news...its not going to be easy...but I think is better if i stay friends with her.....I still cant decide and i dont know when im coming back here....

put ur thoughts on this if U want


The End​
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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backbreaker

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HI...this is lildevil...coming to u from a small town of chicago...

The small town Im staying with my aunt...is very quite unlike miami...is very peaceful...and very warm feeling almost like home...even more because my aunt lives in a church her in chicago...


yesterday was a special day ....there was wedding....I didn't sleep...at all night looking at the ceiling(i never sleep a day before a special occasion)
dude are you trying to run NLP on us?
 

zerocelcius

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^ :crackup:
 

Slick101

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Nah this is very good..

How old are you>

PS Stay friendsss
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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KontrollerX

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LMAO, the entire post does sound like something Tony Robbins would say.

Anyway congrats on your pickup dude.
 

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Nlp?
 

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17 and the Cutest Pick Up of your life?

I hope you have a much longer life.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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