"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cutest pick-up in my life.....

lildevil

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HI...this is lildevil...coming to u from a small town of chicago...

The small town Im staying with my aunt...is very quite unlike miami...is very peaceful...and very warm feeling almost like home...even more because my aunt lives in a church her in chicago...


yesterday was a special day ....there was wedding....I didn't sleep...at all night looking at the ceiling(i never sleep a day before a special occasion)


I met very cute girl she was 16....I couldn't talk to her at first..her mom was looking at every move I made plus


even if i could..... i couldn't get myself together...to get a good conversation going without killing her with questions(weird..most of the time this is easy)....

After 10 minutes of reframin in my room...I was ready

I decided to brake the Ice with the mom....before she(mom) knew it...I was telling the her....how young she looked...and the beutiful daughters she had....I gave her advise on overcomin her deppresion...and how I went from being invisible to the world to having the love for life that she can have as well if she looks at life in a positive way...I won her over in a matter of thirty minutes...

I went to play with the her little brothers just for fun...I started giving them piggy back rides...then push ups....They were really liking me and so they called her up(the girl i liked)..to show what I could do...

This time she was near me and I saw my chance to talk to her(but no threads to talk about)..
:cheer:
I went for my life saver the cube...


I aked her if she wanted to play a game...she was really interested after seeing the great conversation i WAS having with her mom i made her close her eyes and imagin....When i was done i told her what everything meant
she was really impressed with what I knew about her with just a simple game....


after I was done

Me:So how good did i do from a scale from 1 to 10
HER:with an amazing smile told me ten!!
Me: (I gave her a great smile) ur really cute:)
Her:Ur look really cute too!!

:)

and so i went for the grand finale I looked in to her eyes and guided her mouth with my hand on her chin and went went for the kiss..in the kiss
in the wedding When they said do u accept her...we were holding hands....but when they said u may kiss the bride we just popped kiss cuz we didn't want to get caught



In a few days(4) im leaving chicago and going back to my life...I need to call her and tell her the news...its not going to be easy...but I think is better if i stay friends with her.....I still cant decide and i dont know when im coming back here....

put ur thoughts on this if U want


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backbreaker

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HI...this is lildevil...coming to u from a small town of chicago...

The small town Im staying with my aunt...is very quite unlike miami...is very peaceful...and very warm feeling almost like home...even more because my aunt lives in a church her in chicago...


yesterday was a special day ....there was wedding....I didn't sleep...at all night looking at the ceiling(i never sleep a day before a special occasion)
dude are you trying to run NLP on us?
 

zerocelcius

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^ :crackup:
 

Slick101

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Nah this is very good..

How old are you>

PS Stay friendsss
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX

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LMAO, the entire post does sound like something Tony Robbins would say.

Anyway congrats on your pickup dude.
 

MrS

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Nlp?
 

Rollo Tomassi

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17 and the Cutest Pick Up of your life?

I hope you have a much longer life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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